Hi i am new on here so i am sorry if i carry on abit I have had 3 m/c in the last 12 months. They have all been before 12 weeks, we do have two lovely boys age 11 & 7 yrs. Our 11 yr old is disabled with cerebral palsy, we deceided to try for another baby and i feel that life is so cruel now having the 3 miscarriages.Also when i was having the 2nd m/c i found out my brother & partner were expecting there first baby she has gone into labour tonight & i just can't stop crying about the babies we have lost.We attended miscarriage clinic for results of blood tests following 3rd m/c which are normal and they told us to start trying. I really wont a baby but so scared of it happening again.Sorry to go on i just feel an emotional wreck at the moment
Love lise

I've also had 3 m/c's and have no kids as yet, had all the tests after the last one and they found nothing wrong and said I could try again when I was ready. I'm 8 weeks pregnant again now and am hoping and praying I can hang onto this one. Know how scary it is and considered giving up lots of times along the way but the need to be a mum is too strong and so here I am again. It's incredibly hard watching other people sail through their pregnancies with no problems, especially when the docs can't offer any explanation as to why this has happened to us 3 times. It's taken time for me to feel strong enough to try again and you shouldn't underestimate the effect it has on you, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. All I know is that it will be worth all the heartache if I can finally be a mum, just hope this one makes it and I can give others some hope that it can happen. Only you will know if and when you are ready to try again, I'm still scared but for me giving up would have been even worse. I'm here if you ever want to talk, take care of yourself.

Love, Clare xxx

hi and welcome
ive only had 1 m/c and that was bad enough i just dont no how id cope having 3.i had my m/c nearly 4 wks ago and i am trying to stay posotive,cos i dont wonna go down that road were im a mess,i had a eptopic nearly 2 yrs ago and went right down hill,so im tyring to keep my head high.if you need to talk im here
tc linzi

I just wanted to say that whilst I cannot completely understand what you're going through as my circumstances are different, I do understand to a degree. I had a miscarriage (twins) at about 8 wks preg in 2004 then had problematic pregnancy in 2005 which resulted in my gorgeous healthy son being born (but with lots of probs throughout pregnancy and birth) and then had another miscarriage in Jan this year at 11 wks preg. I've only had two mc so they won't investigate yet and I'm EXTREMELY lucky that my little boy is healthy so I try to look on the good side of things but it is hard sometimes when I think about people who seem to "pop them out" and can completely understand you feeling an emotional wreck at the mo!!

I have a bicornuate uterus, endometreosis and I've just been diagnosed with PCOS too! Not too many probs eh! I am absolutely desperate for a baby but these probs mean hard to conceive and hard to carry - I'm worried these things will mean it may take a while for a successful pregnancy and want my little boy to have a brother or sister to play with and love when he is older and we are not around. BUT my husband has decided he's not ready (but gives no specific reasons) - this is tearing me apart and I'm even wondering if we should stay together if we want diff things!

My friend has just had her second and I'm feeling very envious of her (although wouldn't wish her any probs of course) - she has a little girl and now a boy and no probs conceiving or carrying! Its very difficult to see her with her little bundle of joy when I long for it so much and then I give myself a kick up the backside - I have to move on and be happy with what I've got - some people don't even have that! There are soooo many people pregnant at the moment or trying and I'm just waiting for more and more to say "I'm pregnant" and make me feel worse! You do wonder "who" makes these decisions and whether these "things" are mapped out for you in advance and why (it seems) some people seem to have everything and others constantly struggle!

Anyway, here's a big hug to you
Take care
Bea x