i was 9weeks when a spotted some bleeding, i was scared and went to the hospital, took a scan and found out that my baby heart was not beaten, i have been down for sometime but i need a baby in my life as my sister is 34 weeks and i am really jealous but at the sametime i am happy that she is pregnant, whenever i see pregnant woman, i just break down and cry. i have got a child who is 4yrs but everything was ok with my first pregnance. i am really scare as i don't know when is the right time for me to start, my sister is a gyne who always say i should start try for another baby right away but shouldn't wait but i am really scared, what should i do. i really need some advise.

i'm in the same situation. i had a m/c 3 weeks ago i was 9 weeks pregnant had some bleeding on the 11th of march had to go for a scan there wasn't a heart beat. i was devistated! I would have been 12 weeks today and i can't seem to stop thinking about it. Me and my partner want to start trying again asap i am really scared thats it going to happen again! In my personal opinion i don't think waiting will make much of a difference, you will be scared whenever you try because you will always have the m/c at the back of your head. Hope this helps Rachel x

hi
it was like me i went for a acan n the babys heart wasnt beating,it was 4 wks ago,my period came today and my head went,i should be off for my sacn not having a period.weve decided to try straight althou i dont seem to have a sex drive.i think you should try when ready
good luck linzi

i had an ectopic 8 weeks ago and i had my tube removed, i just found out yesturday im 4 weeks preg again, now how soon is that im really scared and hope it does not happen again

if its what you really want start straight away i did x

hope your ok x