hi all

about an hour ago i had bad pains and brief bad bleed i went to bed due d and c tom.

i just got up to go to toilet felt some thing strange and think baby passed on to my towel. it cant be a clot it was like a hard mass... but i havent had ne severe bleeding and just quite uncomfortable pain. i feel slightly relieved but so upset at the same time ive never felt such heart wrenching pain. ive not phoned hosp will phone in morn.

xxx

hi
maybe it was your baby,i had bad pain all through t,luckly i passed mine in the toilet,how you feeling daft question i no,pm me if you need to talk
tc linzi xxxx

I passed mine lying in bed into a towel too, i understand the slight relief part but its so horrid for you, thinking of you, remember you can take pain killers, and i found a hot pack, or hot water bottle helpful when it was passing, just keep lying down, and get others to look after you, sending hugs through the air rach xx

maybe it is it. How are you feeling now? I didn't have a change in pain, it was quite uncomfortable for a while but it didn't actually hurt when i passed the baby. If you're feeling ok, just take it easy. Is your oh there with you? pm me if you need to i'll be back on later x x x

Hi : )

I had a similar experience to yourself. early December last year I began to experience a little bleeding and discomfort in my stomach and went to bed in hope of sleeping it off. Unfortunatley I woke early hours the next morning doubled over in pain thinking it was a period cramp. As soon as i hit the toilet it all poured out of me and i passed the baby down the toilet. it didn't hurt while it passed out however my bleeding continued heavily for 30 hours which made me weak due to the amount of blood loss and i also passed out. Like you i didnt go to the hospital straight away, I could't bear the thort of ebing told what i knew had already happened. But looking back now I wish I had gone as soon as it all happened.

It still hurts now, but you will be fine, you just need to take some time to yourself and grieve in your own way.

pm if you want to talk more : )

x x x