hello all? can you help me?
it's been over 6 weeks since my m/c and af still not shown up! i think i'm feeling pg but i didn't have that many symptoms last time so i'm worried that if i am and not getting strong symptoms that it's gonna end the same as last time!!!i'm constipated(tmi sorry!) having frequent headaches and tired more ofter than normal and getting a few spots!! i don't know what to do!! i don't want to go to docs incase they think i'm being obsesive!! and scared to do test incase it's pos and i find out too early but i can't stop thinking about it!!! Also i've put a little bit of weight over the past couple of weeks (was just under 7and a half now 8 which is healthy for my little 5ft 1.5inch body)
is it all in my head??!!
what do you think?
Rache x

well she's here!! at least now i can get back to normal and know that i can start ttc properly now!
thankyou for your replies
rache x

hey

i had a m/c a couple of days ago i have never been so scared in my life. i went to the doctors and she told me that after a m/c you are very fertile and are very more likely to conceive. hope you are ok.

emma x

hi rache
i was quite lucky had my 1st m/c 8 wks ago and my period turned up bang on 4 wk later,thou i didnt prepare myself for it-whwn i thought i did.my second periods due today (no show up to now)but i think shel turn up-gutted if not ill test 2 moz just cos the hossie will then put me on asprin.thou i no im not prg cos i tested the other day as i didnt want to drink if there was a chance i could be,gd luck
tc linzi xxxx

i can total relate to this, i too am struggling with what to do..... i had my missed m/c in january my period came and went as normal, but i have not yet! had a vist...i reckon its about 7 weeks...i have your symptons headaches so tired i could be sick!! and i have put on 8 lbs since last period(i was thinking i was just been eating to many pies) Also my boobs are sore and my nipples are swollen(tmi soz)these are the smae symptons as i had with my first healthy pregnacy and also my missed m/c,,,really not sure if i should do a test or hold of for a couple more weeks,,,dont think i could handle having another missed mc or being told i have...arggggghhhh it soooo frustrating i know how your feeling babe..im trying not to think about it but every time my stomach aches i think ... no its happening again...i have not spoke with hubby about it as i know he will be worrying...
have you done pg test yet?????
hang on in there!!!
keep in touch
big hugsxxx

i know how you feel ive not waited for period to come since m/c 3 weeks ago and we ttc in theory period should be here next week, im same as you dont want to know too early but its gonna play on mind if it dont show ive said im gonna try hang out till i miss two then see doc?? but easier said than done!! give it another week then see doc ask for blood test sems may be they are a bit more precise at wheter hormones are from new pregnancy or left over from m/c. its so unfair that we have to feel this way while ttc it should e an excitin time but i know we will be full of worry. positive thinking is the key pm me if ya need a chat xxx

Sorry to hear about your m/c.
Its a difficult situation but sometimes it can take a while for your periods to get back to normal. Also if you tested it could come up positive as after a m/c it can take up to 9 weeks for your hormone level to get back to normal. I had my 3rd m/c at the end of Feb and each time has been different in terms of when I got my period. Try to hang on another week before you do anything. (easier said than done I no)just hard to be disappointed if its not the result you want.
Hope you are ok.
Let me no how you get on....
Vic xxx

hello, i am in the same situation. i m/c at 6 weeks on the 20th march, havent had a period since and it will be 6 weeks on thurs without a period, im ttc now and have done afew tests which all say negative. i just wandered if anybody has had their period yet and how many weeks it took for them to come on? i think im being impatient but its hard when your ttc.

stacey x