hi girls

my first period arrived today 6 weeks 1 day after m/c.
i didnt think iit would bother me but im an emotional wreck. i should be four months pregnant not having periods, its all wrong!! i did a test as had bloated tummy now i know why! i went shopping yest and i swear evry one except me was pregnant, from the age of 12 t0 45!! that really got to me too !!

obviously hormones are running high i feel so tearful!!i spopke to friend who m/c at 20 weeks and she said the only way she felt better was to be pregnant again im starting to see where she is coming from...she 38 weeks now so there is hope...

i hate the feeling of wanting some thin so much but its out of your hands and nothin is instant!!and i hate bein so scared of the thinng i actually want so much, to actually happen!! i have an empty feelin inside of me where my baby once laid, its so hard at times especially at the min.

hope you all coping ok

big hugs
xxx

i no how you feel i thought id totally prepared myself for my first period but i hadnt.i just cried and cried,i still feel like that now and this will be my 3rd period at the end of this month i seem to get my hopes up but then there just smashed.it will be our turn hun soon its gotta be,take care
linzi xxx

I know how you have felt and having had two m/c's was terified to get next bfp but also longed for it, its soooo hard. The months after a m/c are still so emotional, each time you get a af arrive its like another loss, I have had that since last year, i am here got my bfp last week and am nerves and anxiety again, but it does feel better, please have faith that things will get better and you will feel hopeful again as I now do, good luck hun and ill pass all my dust to you ***** rach xxxxxx

you have worded that so well. My first period after was awful, it is easier now but still wish i wasn't having them. I should have a big fat bump now.
My friend had a m/c and she said it was only when she was pg again that she felt better, despite being terrifies throughout her pg she now has a really gorgeous smiley 3 month old girl.
I'm scared too, feel like we'll never get there but i know deep down we will.

Sendin you a great big hug, it will get easier honey, but remember you are still grieving so it's not supposed to be easy x x x