I am sorry about your loss, i lost baby boy declan at nine days old my story is called in memory of declan.

darl you have lost a child that is a part of and you are going to feel depressed but iam not a doctor so you should really go to a doctor to explain how you feel.

if he treats the way you explain if i were you i would just wait to fall pregant agian until he at least has a chance to deal wiht losing your first baby. and if it dosent improve do what makes you smile not cry.

there is lots of support networks out there that can help you, they can help you talk through things you are feeling and maybe ways of getting you back on your feet.

your family doesnt sound very suportive, dont shut them out be strong and just say to they you have been through a rough patch and you dont need them to tell you i told you so, you need them to be there for support to be there for a hug when you need it and to listen to you and not tell you how to do things.

In time darl things will get better remember it has only been 3 weeks and things dont heal overnight especially not the heart you are going to miss your baby for a very long time thing is i am sure your a baby will be looking at you all the time because you have a beautiful angel looking after you now.

I was only 21 when i lost my son so only a few years older than you.
i am here to talk any time Darl.

Cheers CC

hi, 3 weeks ago i got rushed into hospital & round out i was miscarrying, i was 8 weeks. this happened 2 days before my 17th birthday. i'm really strugglin on how to cope i cant talk to my boyfriend about it because he doesnt want to talk about it & when i get upset he just says "everything will be ok" when really it wont be ok, im also having a lot of family problems, like my mam & dad just disowning me ( i dont no how to spell it ). i just need some help, i said to my boyfriend im going to book an appoinment at the doctor's because i think i have depression & he said "dont be daft & shook his head at me". what am i supposed to do, he keeps arguein with me & bein nasty to me, i threatened to leave the other day & he was like fine just go, do you think hes suffering in the inside but wont open up to me ?! . i need some support but i'm not getting any from him. i really need help i want to try again for another baby in a few months but im not sure if he's the right person to try with, he never does or say anything nice to me, i think its because of loosing our baby but i dont know what to do im so upset im breaking my heart right now, im a 17 year old kid who's out there on her own fighting to stay strong. everybody refuses to help me tell's me that its my own fault. & people say it was a good thing i lost the baby even some of my family members. only you girls can understand what i am feeling right now, so please anyone help me, thank you really appreciated for reading my story xxx

I am sorry about your loss, i lost baby boy declan at nine days old my story is called in memory of declan.

darl you have lost a child that is a part of and you are going to feel depressed but iam not a doctor so you should really go to a doctor to explain how you feel.

if he treats the way you explain if i were you i would just wait to fall pregant agian until he at least has a chance to deal wiht losing your first baby. and if it dosent improve do what makes you smile not cry.

there is lots of support networks out there that can help you, they can help you talk through things you are feeling and maybe ways of getting you back on your feet.

your family doesnt sound very suportive, dont shut them out be strong and just say to they you have been through a rough patch and you dont need them to tell you i told you so, you need them to be there for support to be there for a hug when you need it and to listen to you and not tell you how to do things.

In time darl things will get better remember it has only been 3 weeks and things dont heal overnight especially not the heart you are going to miss your baby for a very long time thing is i am sure your a baby will be looking at you all the time because you have a beautiful angel looking after you now.

I was only 21 when i lost my son so only a few years older than you.
i am here to talk any time Darl.

Cheers CC

thanks for replying to my message i didnt think anyone would really notice me, i understand what you are saying, & see my family are so hard to talk to i cant even go to my own mam about my problems, i usually talk to my boyfriends mam. & about my boyfriend well he just thinks everything will be ok but really it wont be hes trying to shut the pain out & forget it, but you cant forget something that easy especially when that thing broke your heart. i just wish he would understand me & talk to me, we have been arguein like hell since we lost the baby. i dont no if i want to be with him anymore. i feel like im out there alone fighting to stay strong with not a friend in the world. if he just talked to me i would feel bettter but everytime i menchane the baby he shuts me out & tells me to shut up. i feel so depressed, i want to see a doctor but he thinks i dont need to see one, when really i do, i dont want to leave him because i love him , i dont no what to do anymore he never makes me feel special if you understand what i mean. he calls me names, like says stuff like "your fat, your ugly" always has sly digs at my size when i'm not even fat. i'm starting to hate him i really am, hes been so horrible to me i thought he would of been supportive but really he just makes things worse. yes i want a baby with him but i dont think trying again with him would work considering hes bad tempered. I think its best i just moved on, by myself afterall i am in this alone, exept for the women on here who i can actually talk to because they understand. sorry i go on abit its just i want help & advice, thanks for reading. xxx

hi there just wanted to say sorry to hear things are not going well for you at the moment,chin up things will get better.I had my first mc when i was 18 and i know its hard to think to the future but i went on to have a normal pregnancy and had my daughter whos now 15 i then had my second mc 3 years ago but then had a normal pragnancy with my son whos now 2, and have recently had another mc,i know its really hard to work through all the feelings in your head and to try and work out how your boyfriend feels,dont be ashamed to go and talk to a doctor about how your feeling and ask what other help there is in your area,dont suffer alone there is help out there,take care

hi sweety

have you thought about going to see a counsler. that can confide in.

Keep your head up and stay strong.


CC