hi girls ive just returned from jeresy on holiday and last thurs whilst there i turned 8 weeks pregnant. i m/c at 8 weeks last pregnancy and to make things even worse ive been sick most days but on thurs i felt really illl bad stomach aches etc my family had similar thing but mine has lasted longer than theres. i was in emotional turmoil.. last timme i had no pain that im aware of and didnt know till i started bleeding at 10 weeks.

ive still not told docs was goin to phone tom dont really want to but with an under active thyroid i think i should get some bloods done but i feel like i am tempting fate or some thing.

a i mad?? i hope to god my baby still alive i didnt realise how raw my m/c feeling still are!!

any ways thanks for reading, looks like a lot of pregancys after m/c so congrats and every thing crossed for us

big hugs xx

I am six weeks pregnant after a missed miscarriage three months ago. Am worried every day that the same thing will happen again!!

thank you girls your all amazin and really do put my mind at rest, its so nice to hear im not alone and feeling are quite normal. ive got booking in app next tues and im thinkim they will do bloods thenn too as ill be nearly ten weeks ive requested an early scan but bein only 3 weeks off 12 weeks not sure ill get it but will wait and see. i know what ya mean bout not wanting to know but now do and ive kinda left it a bit late but its done now....

im hope i get thru next week as with m/c when i started bleeding it will be same time in this pregnancy etc... all these mile stones you cant forget its crazy!!!

thanks again for your suppport girls i really appreciate it!!

hope you all doing ok and here if any of you ever want to chat

big hugs to alll!!!!!!!!

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I agree with the other girls, go and get checked out just to be on the safe side. Know just how you're feeling, I didn't go to the docs with this one til I was past 9 weeks, the furthest I'd got before cos I was just too scared. Trouble was cos I'd left it so long I only just managed to scrape in for my 12 week scan and by then I was desperate to know everything was ok so ended up wishing I'd gone sooner. I honestly don't think you being ill for longer than everyone else is a bad sign though, your body's just busier than non-pregnant peoples so it's probably just taken you a bit longer to get over it. I really do understand how scared you are hun but the only way you're gonna start to feel better is to go to the docs and get your scan sorted and your bloods checked. The girls are right, it's incredibly reassuring to see that heartbeat and you're denying yourself that peace of mind. Sometimes think we punish ourselves on purpose when we've m/c'd before, I'd convinced myself this one wouldn't work out cos I just didn't think I deserved it but I'm 23 weeks now and finally starting to believe it. I've got everything crossed for you, miracles really do happen and it's your turn hun.

Take care and good luck,
Clare xxx

Hi It is so nervewracking after m/c's to trust you will be fine this time, we all automatically think the worst, I am still miss pessimism and i had my dating scan at 10+2 which was fine, but as it was early am still not convinced the baby is ok, I have now booked myself for another scan in two weeks as I cant go till sept to check it out again, which is a bit crazy and irrational and I really cant afford it!!! my friend was a bit like you with sorry to say head in the sand a bit, and her baby was fine, the sickness is good and i promise once you get to after the scan the time goes much faster, take care hun rach xxxx

well congrats on the baby in the first place, but oh i know just how you feel! Im now 9 weeks ill be 10 weeks on wednesday and i even had a scan last week on monday and im due to go to the midwife tomorrow, but im scared to death that in between now and last week something has happened to my baby. Im still feeling kind of nauseous so hope thats a good sign. I dont think you can truly relax when youve had a m/c every twinge sets you panicing, but i think you should go and see the doctor, if youve been feeling ill why not? My last scan lady was lovely and said when youve had that in your history theres no harm in checking it out. And its reassuring i have not been stressing as much since i saw a heartbeat, but deep down i am a bit worried something could go wrong, ive never got this far with a pregnancy. Youre not mad, youre pregnant haha im not sure if theres a difference mind the way im feeling! Good luck i say get it checked out if you feel you should might atleast put your mind at ease.