I found out i was pregnant this past march although me and my husband are only 21 we had been trying as we are happy and financially stable enough to start a family,.i was due the 26th october
When i fell pregnant in march i was over the moon we couldnt be happier (my husband is in the army and i took the test when he was on exercise in germany so had to tell him the good news over the phone) he was sooo excited, but i noticed i didnt have any symptoms, but with it being my first pregnancy i didnt know any different and just thought i was luck until 7 1.2 weeks when i lost the baby i was an emotional wreck and i couldnt bring myself to tell my husband who was in germany at the time he had to find out from the family support that the army provides, it was devestating and it wasn't nice going through my d&c on my own with husband being away.
But a month later he came home and i fell pregnant straight away, but again my husband was away, he had went out to iraq for 6 months on the day the test come back positive, so i had to tell him over the phone again that i was pregnant, he was sooo excited and i had some nausea which was more then i had the first pregnancy but at 12 1/2 weeks i lost the baby again (this time it was a missed miscarriage the baby had died at about 8 weeks, i had a scan just a few days before it had died and everything was fine it had a heartbeat and everything), this time it was alot harder as he was in iraq and i didnt want to tell him, he was goin through enough being out there, him coming home to me and our unborn baby was what was keeping him going, family support then told him that i had lost the baby again and had a 2nd D&C but the army wouldnt let him come back and see me because they said the situation wasnt serious enough so i felt sooo let down, i was due my second baby on the 29th january,
I have been to the doctors but they refuse to do tests on me because i have only had 2 m/c's i dont want to have to go through a 3rd one just so they can do some tests to find out whats wrong. I just want some answers aswell,
i know how you are feeling and trust me i feel the exact same (also both my miscarriages started with a light brown discharge aswell)
Me and my husband are going to stop trying he is going to get out the army and we are then going to try again for a baby, i dont think i would be able to cope with 3 misscarriages in a year its tooo much for one person to take, if you ever need anyone to talk to im always here,
I know i dont know you but i know what your going through and i always know its better talking to a stranger thats going throught the same thing then someone you know that doesnt know how your feeling. I hope everything works out for you x

I was diagnosed with PCOS last November. Devastating enough. I started Metformin, which regulated my periods and I managed to get pregnant. The joy didn't last long. I miscarried at 7 weeks. Surprisingly I got pregnant 6 weeks after the miscarriage. I really thought this baby would be ours to keep. Maybe it was "sent" to use to comfort our from the first loss. WRONG. I'm now almost 8 weeks and been to early pregnancy clinic today due to discharge. They couldn't see the fetal pole in today's scan. Going for ERPC tomorrow and I'm just wondering how I can carry on with my life from now on...anyone there going through something similar? I feel I'm all alone.

I found out i was pregnant this past march although me and my husband are only 21 we had been trying as we are happy and financially stable enough to start a family,.i was due the 26th october
When i fell pregnant in march i was over the moon we couldnt be happier (my husband is in the army and i took the test when he was on exercise in germany so had to tell him the good news over the phone) he was sooo excited, but i noticed i didnt have any symptoms, but with it being my first pregnancy i didnt know any different and just thought i was luck until 7 1.2 weeks when i lost the baby i was an emotional wreck and i couldnt bring myself to tell my husband who was in germany at the time he had to find out from the family support that the army provides, it was devestating and it wasn't nice going through my d&c on my own with husband being away.
But a month later he came home and i fell pregnant straight away, but again my husband was away, he had went out to iraq for 6 months on the day the test come back positive, so i had to tell him over the phone again that i was pregnant, he was sooo excited and i had some nausea which was more then i had the first pregnancy but at 12 1/2 weeks i lost the baby again (this time it was a missed miscarriage the baby had died at about 8 weeks, i had a scan just a few days before it had died and everything was fine it had a heartbeat and everything), this time it was alot harder as he was in iraq and i didnt want to tell him, he was goin through enough being out there, him coming home to me and our unborn baby was what was keeping him going, family support then told him that i had lost the baby again and had a 2nd D&C but the army wouldnt let him come back and see me because they said the situation wasnt serious enough so i felt sooo let down, i was due my second baby on the 29th january,
I have been to the doctors but they refuse to do tests on me because i have only had 2 m/c's i dont want to have to go through a 3rd one just so they can do some tests to find out whats wrong. I just want some answers aswell,
i know how you are feeling and trust me i feel the exact same (also both my miscarriages started with a light brown discharge aswell)
Me and my husband are going to stop trying he is going to get out the army and we are then going to try again for a baby, i dont think i would be able to cope with 3 misscarriages in a year its tooo much for one person to take, if you ever need anyone to talk to im always here,
I know i dont know you but i know what your going through and i always know its better talking to a stranger thats going throught the same thing then someone you know that doesnt know how your feeling. I hope everything works out for you x

i m/c in april and now at 7 is weeks looks like its happening again, i have scan fri ut in pain and bleeding..im here if you need to talk grls on here have een such a support for me. we will get thru this its going to be hard, and im not sure how but we did last time and we will again...

our time will come, i hope, and i will never forget the ones i lost... your not alone i feel your sadness and it damn well hurts, time will ease the pain take time for your self honey rest grieve do what you need to do im here if you want to chat xxx

I had a mc in Aprill to and I think Iam 6wks pg now, I have booked a scan for friday but Iam sure its going to be bad news, I have had some bleeding! have not told anyone this time as last time I was so excited I couldt help myself! IAM SCARED

I am saddened to hear that you have suffered a miscarriage. I hope that you have had your results and that all is well this time. I understand exactly what you are going through. Saddly I have suffered 12 miscarriages but will never give up hope,and we continue to try, even though the medical profession do not seem to know much about the reasons behind it. All I can say to you is that it happens for a reason and that the only way to deal with it is to take care of yourself afterwards. Talk to people, partner, friends, family. And dont forget that your partner will have felt loss too, make sure you work through it together, it can bring you so close, every cloud!!! Take care & let me know what happens if you feel like chatting........

Iam sorry to have heard that, I feel for you.
At the moment all me and my husband are doing is arguing, he doest seem to understand how Iam feeling as he keeps moaning at me for not doing the house work which is really not helping!! Maybe I should have told my mum, at keast I would have had someone to understand as she went through mc to. will let you no how scan goes!