hi ladies well i had my first m/c in feb this yr and the due date is only just over 4 wks away .i have handled it now well as ok as i could.i have had my ups and downs but the last few days ive been moody,snappy and cryin a bit.its worse as my fellas sister gets married on the day the baby was due so i have to be in a good mood.i am so dreading it,ill be with all the family and have to smile .
tc linzi

hi honey my due date is in 6 weeks with 2 of my friends due that day!!! my second due date is the date of my sons bday but trying to convince myself dates were wrong as dont want to be sad on his bday!!
the wedding will be hard but try and take some out to grieve for your baby before hand... easier said than done i know.

thinking of you honey, i dont know what to say as i feel exactly the same and dont think any one can say any thing to e to feel better. pm if ya want to talk

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Well hunny i know what you are talking about i tooo had my due date in august and like hellen said its really hard. I also found the days leading upto it hard too.
My DH and i where in York on a mini break and we went into the Minster and there was a chrildrens section where you could light candles so we lite 2 one for a girl and 1 for a boy.
We also let 2 balloons go one in each colour with a little message on them.

Its upto you how you do this everyone is different. Some of my friends have planted a tree in the garden. Some just go somewhere together to be close to each other. We planted a plant when we lost our baby and it flowers in dec when we lost it.

You hang there hunny you will get throiugh this like we have all got through this horrible part of our lives. I think it makes you a stronger and better person.
Thinking of you LInzi xxxxxxxxxxx

you poor thing-I totally know where you're coming from. I had my second mc in jan and due date would've been next week. Worse thing is that my sis in law got preg about same time and had a baby boy today. Should be really happy as it's great news but feel dreadful. Had heart to heart with hubby which has helped. Why don't you do the same with your hubby or anyone really?Have to turn to my hubby as my friends don't seem to understand-noone does until it happens to them. Have a good cry-I find it worse when I keep it in. And keep your hopes up-it'll happen I'm sure XXX Feel free to pm me if it helps x

Hiya Babe, it was my babies due date on 1st sept, im not going to cut any corners hun IT WAS HARD! My SIL found out she was pregnant the day after me & turned out she was 16 weeks so had a baby alot earlier than my due date. We went to the coast on 1st sept for a weeks break & SIL came along with her baby. This made things SO much harder! I was so snappy & needed to break down & have a good cry (which I ended up doing by the sea)

I felt totally dazed all day (like it was passing in a blur) my husband had a tattoo (the chinese symbol for family) while we was there in rememberance. I lost a second baby too & 'his' due date is 22nd october (day before my birthday & wedding anniversary) so im dreading it so damn much.

I think we shouldnt be ashamed to admit to people it was our babies due date, that way if you do seem detached from everything tey understand why, I know you dont want to put dampers on the wedding but im sure your family will understand if you want to leave an hour early & arent drinking much (I avoided drink because I knew it would feed my emotions)

Maybe doing something to mark the day for your baby will help, for instances, wy not realease an helium balloon with a message on it before you leave for the wedding (this was my friends idea & its a good one I think) Im going to get the latin word 'prosapia' tattoo'd on my wrist on 22nd for my babies.

If you ever want to chat them PM me, thinking of you at such a ard time hun

Hellen xxx

hi girls
well i thought f a tattoo a angel with the date so my hubby just agrees,he hates talking about it,i no ill et throu it like we all do but im so dreading it.just thinking its only 4 wks now,i hope your all well and girls keep your chin up and thanks.
tc linzi xxxxxx

Gr8 Idea Linzi

My hubby doesnt like talking about it much & on the day he was acting such a clown trying 2 make me smile & a few times i did give him a weak watery smile but when I blorted my eyes out he just held me & for the 1st time that day I saw the pain in his eyes too, Men r so good @ hiding their emotions even from us wives

Thinking of you hun
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