I just found out on wednesday I had a miscarriage. Finding it really hard, cant seem to take it all in.

I started bleeding on tuesday there was nt much blood but I contacted the doctors who said not to worry as i m 8 weeks pregnant and this can happen. As the day went on the bleeding seemed to get worse. I contacted the doctors again who said I d need a scan the next day. Went to the hospital as arranged but when I was there I started to bleed really heavily and just knew things were nt right. They monitored me for the rest of the day and said I was having a miscarriage. Could nt take it in just broke down my partner and could nt stop crying. Still cant?l had to go back to the hospital today for blood tests waiting on the results. Hopefully they ll be fine and I ll not need to go back monday. Just dont want to go back in. The ward seemed to be full of happy pregnant people.

Just cant seem to take it in? I keep thinking I ll go to my bed and get up the next day and everything will be fine and this will all have been a really bad dream.. it does nt seem to

i had a missed miscarriage last november,it was my first pregnancy and i found it so hard to deal with. i was about 8 weeks pregnant and only found out what had happened when i went for my 1st scan,my baby had no heart beat i was devastated. i decided to have an erpc as i didnt think i could of dealt with going through with it naturally which was an option i was given.
i would of been due about two weeks ago so it has been quite hard even more so as my sister in law gave birth about a week ago which i have also found hard.
my husband and i did start trying again but i was finding it hard as we were not conceiving probably due to how stressed i was getting, i've now gone back on the pill to try and get myself feelin happier and more relaxed and then may start trying again later in the year.
look after yourself and do whatever makes you happy. don't rush things though it doesnt work. take care

hi
i was just reading nickies reply and i totally agree, i had a miscarraige just under a month ago and i found it extremely hard to deal with. my mum said to me a few days later that if the pregnancy had continued then maybe there would have been somthing wrong with the baby and it could have suffered the whole of its life. since thinking of it this way i have found it so much easier to come to terms with, dont get me wrong, i still have my moments where i get really upset especially when everywhere i go theres tons of pregnant women and to top it off one of my best friends has just told me shes pregnant and shes due around the same time that i was, sounds horrible but i cant bring myself to be around her at the mo, she still drinks and smokes and it seems so unfair that the miscarriage happened to me and not her. i think that over time things get easier and there are some websites with some lovely poems written by people that have been through the same thing that you may find a comfort to read when you feel upset. x

hi,
sorry to hear your news. I had a mC on the 13th of April, I too have felt really gutted, especially as 2 of my close friends are heavily pregnant. The way i am seeing it is, there must have been something wrong with the baby - its the only way to get your head round what happened!
im trying to be positive and thinking at least i got pregnant (it was the first month i came off the pill) i have been trying again, but no luck since!)
It is hard and you will never forget about this but try and be postive and you will have a baby again.
nickix

Thanks Nicki thats the way I m going to try and think about it from now.
I hope you fall again soon. We are getting married later this year so we ve decided to wait until after that before we start trying again.
Good luck
Thanks again xx