sorry but im gunna rant!!!

i am so sick off ppl on this forum who are so harsh and critical of such difficult times we have had through abortion.

every one is entilteld to their view but feel there are some ppl on this forum
are just pushing it a littel far

Abortion is a very difficult choice to make without the nasty comments from ppl who seem to lack any basic empathy.

its not an easy choise and its each to there own but the majority of woman want help comfort and support

after all you dont know all the ins and outs of every ones situation !

we dont want agressive or upsetting comments forced on us, you wouldnt like it done to you wether it b about religion , polotics or any thing else that you may find upsetting or dificult and we dont want them pm to us either!!

any one who is after help and suport feel free to add to this thread or pm me!
im not here to judge and i dont have any biased views.


i just want to help coz i know from personal experience its a hard situation and theres certain people on here that make me feel like poop for me personaly making the right decision

XXX

good on you i have read a few nasty messages on here and you are right its not fair for people to force their opinions on you ! its hard enough as it is without the guilt trip some people want to put you on ,its the worse most hard thing to do for most people and places like this are great for advice and support , i know i have been there ,for me it will always hurt and its hard to forgive myself but i cant change it now and in the long run i have to believe it was the right thing to do ,if i dont i would go crazy ! no one should be made to feel bad or wrong by some one else (they are probably doing enough of that themselves ) so anyway just wanna give my love to all you girls who are going through it now or have been through it , take care xx

Hey im so glad some has put a a comment on this forum its needs to be said!! RIGHT A MESSAGE FOR ALL THOSE PPL HAVE SENT NASTY MESSGAES YES YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT BUT KEEP YOUR MOUTHS CLOSED WE DONT NEED PEOPLE TELLING US WE HAVE DONE THINGS WRONG!!! THIS WAS WHAT WE WANTED AND THE BEST OPTION FOR US!! so please stop trying to make us very guilty we dont need it we are all going through alot and to tell total strangers is even harder!! so if anyone wants to talk we are all here for u girls.. and even blokes if they need a chat Lots of love Kiles xxxxxxxx

this is for ppl on the forum who dont think before posting some very harsh comments,
i know not every woman on here would want all the in and outs of there situation read but maby it may bring some understanding and a little less judging.


personaly i know i made the right choice for me and there would be no way i could cope with a baby at this time in my life,
ive suffed from servear depression and agrophobia and anxity attacks on and off from being 19 wich last year i just got over, i started working as an interior designer which i wanted to do, this march im moving to a nice flat, every thing is comming togeter for me (sorry if u think im a head case)
i have plenty of time for kids i concive wile using a coil! , i wasnt activly trying so why do they try to make us feel guilty?
there are many woman who have kids and cant look after them, and i didnt want to be one of them, when i chose to have a child i want to know that i can be there for them emotionaly physicly mentaly and finacaly and there is nothing wrong with that, and dare i say it proud of the decesion i made.
luckly my family were very supportive of my choice and i know others arnt so lucky to have that and i cant imagine how hard that would be.
i know there are some pppl worse off than me and some not so worse but the choices we have to make are equaly as hard. we all have are resons and shouldnt be made to feel less of a person because of them.