for all of you thinking or deciding about having an abortion, i just wanted to tell you how is was for me. my partner said you never hear of things that went ok, you always hear of the bad things so i just wanted to tell you how i got on. if you read my post from before i had it, i thought id be in tears and really upset for days. but i am not, i am not going to say that i wasn't upset at all because i was but its the day after and i feel fine. i am not crying, hurting (in pain) and don't regret what i did as it was right for me. love to you all.

Was nice to read a postive post. Im going to the doctor on wed to ask for an abortion, i was worried i would be upset. though i rang to make the appointment and cancel the midwife and i was not at all upset telling the midwife i would no longer need to see her.have already got it in my mind that i am not pregnant. am glad to hear that you are all ok and well.

"Omg im not the only one "

i was the same as you after my termination, and i thought there was something wrong with me coz i wasnt that upset.i know i made the right choise aswell and my treatment on the nhs for a termination went realy well and i had no problems at all i didnt realy even feel like i just had an op, just didnt want people to give me greif for apparently being heartless i send my love back your way babe just remember to get at least a coupple weeks in bed or infront of the tele xxx

I am really pleased it worked out for you. I felt the same after mine, it was calm again .. quite relaxed and at peace really.

Be careful though and don't rush yourself in to feeling like everything is back on track because you may feel bad at times and just to let you know that this is ok.

If ever you need support you know where to find it now .. even if it takes a couple of days for people to respond.

XXX Take care of yourself.