Hi. Firstly i want to thank everyone that offered me advice and support while i was deciding on what to do. You have all been very caring and understanding so thankyou all.

In the end i had the abortion. I already regret it and wish i was a stronger person to stand up for myself.

It wasnt my first termination as i had one back in august last year and had the pill method, but i have to say that surgical was by far less traumatic than the medical abortion.

It really does help that i have 3 happy toddlers running circles around me at home. Without them i would definetly go mad. (but then i wouldnt have been in this situation iykwim)

I will still come on here to give any advice i feel i can offer.

Hi Hun,

I send you my best wishes and sympathies. I know this was very hard for you. Try not to beat yourself up too much, I think you were under enormous pressure to abort from your partner. I hope you find the path to healing and joy. I do not think you are a weak person at all.

lots of love
Siobhan

I'm so sorry that you felt you had to make the decision that you did. I hope that you will keep a firm standard where the man is concerned, that you will not allow yourself to be treated with less respect than you deserve. please take good care of yourself as after the heartache that you are feeling you dont want to have to be facing an abortion again for the third time a few months down the line. I hope that you will find the strength you need from the love that is there for you in the hearts of your 3 little ones, take good care of them hun,
lots of love,
kerry

Just want to send you lots of love. I think your help on here will be very welcomed by other girls.

Kelli

I too was checking back to see how you are.

I hope you are keeping as well as possible, and your LOs are keepng you smiling.

Remember not to blame yourself right now but to look after yourself and I hope you find some peace.

We're always here if you need us xx

i was checking to see what you decided, firstly im sorry you were in this situation but you have chosen now you need to get thru it and make sure yoou dont end up in this situation again. i cant imagine the pain but glad you have your los to keep you busy.
look after yourself and your los and if your oh starts to get nasty dont stand for it hun you are very strong and should have to have someone running your life

Hi

I've been checking back to see what happened and just wanted to say I'm so sorry you felt backed into a corner and I hope the regret passes and you can mourn and move on as much as possible - and not blame yourself.

You were in an impossible situation and in the end you took the decision that would only leave you hurting, I think you're a strong woman who's just trying to do the best for her family and keep it together.

Sam xxx

don't know what to say other than you take good care of yourself and your little ones.
love
jo
xxx