Ok ive been just kinda seeing a guy for about two months. About two weeks ago i found out i was prego and when i told him he was all for abortion and im not. I went to the doctor and they said im about 6 weeks. What do i do?

thats bad news! ive had a abortion and its not nice when u dont want one. i was in the same position as you.. he blackmailed me to have a abortion. after it abortion i was that depressed i tried to kill myself,

i wouldnt go thru it if you dont want to go thru it...

it takes 2 to tango to have sex ....

I have been in your situation twice over....aborted twice and had the babies twice, and the only advice i can give, that is totally honest, is that there is no easy solution either way.Aborting means a lifetime of guilt, regret....on the flipside, what my mum said to me, very wise words, when i was preggers with my 1st child....you have to be totally prepared to single parent this baby if you choose to have it.Father may want to know it, may not....you can not count on them 'coming around'.I now have 2 beautiful girls, neither planned nor wanted by their dads....i have raised them totally myself, and im not going to lie, it has been very very hard at times....neither father sees their child, and full responsibilty has and will remain always mine.....their attitude, i had a choice, to keep them or abort....cos i kept them, they can remove all responsibilty from themselves........this is not always the case with every man, just my experience....good luck and big hugs

I would just like to expand on what has been posted already, this is your life. I dont mean that in a "your body, turf it if you want to" heartless type of way but like this...
If you decide to go for the abortion,because he wants it, it will not be you partner carrying the guilt, going through the up down emotional rollercoaster and marking a dot on the baby's birthday. It will be you.It will not be your partner crying himself to sleep at night and not wanting to get up in the morning. It will be you. It will not be your partner holding back tears each time he see's an ad on tv with a baby or his friend gives birth to their child or he walks past one in the street/shopping centre/anywhere. It will be you. I havejust been reading a few of the last posts, just from the last few days and I urge you to do the same, please. It might help you size up the reality of what will be facing you, for you alone to deal with.

THere is no one who can force you into this decision and no one who can takeaway the consequences for you.

I encourage you please to just go read the last few posts and responses, it is so hard to see so many women in such pain and hearing most of them say they wish they had given it more consideration/time and not gone through with it. there are pages of regrets, please don't add your name to them.

take care
Kerry

i did what my bf wanted 7 weeks ago and regret it so much.. please do what you want.x

The only real advice i can give you is to go with what you want! If YOU want a baby then there is no question that you should carry on with your pregnancy. However if you are unsure about what you want then give yourself time to think and dont rush any decisions. Also if you are unsure look into your options fully and what they involve.

Hope this helps,

kirst x