Okay, me and my husband were apart for a while... i slept with someone else on Nov 30th my last period started @ Nov 24, N e Ways. me and my husband got back together but we waited to have sex untill the 11,12,13,14,15,16 of Dec, a early ultrasound ( 2 ) both stated the 12 was the day of conception. my monthly cycles range from 32-34 days... I don't and never had a normal 28 day period.... Everything adds up to my husband being the father, which i really hope it is... maybe it's my guilt, but it's not like he wasn't with anyone either... i just don't want a abortion.. anyone have any advice..... whats my chances it's not my husbands baby

Dear Sandy

Your husband is surely the father of this child, and take it as a little blessing from God to cherish this little baby and let it re-unite you both and streghten your marriage. Dont worry about the infidelity, I think you maybe want to punish yourself for doing it, but aborting your husbands baby is really not the answer.

The pregnancy is a good and beautiful thing which has happened, and as you both fall in love with the little being inside of you, you and your husband have the chance to fall in love again with each other.

Take care of yourself and your little family

Love
Siobhan

Dear Sandy

Your husband is surely the father of this child, and take it as a little blessing from God to cherish this little baby and let it re-unite you both and streghten your marriage. Dont worry about the infidelity, I think you maybe want to punish yourself for doing it, but aborting your husbands baby is really not the answer.

The pregnancy is a good and beautiful thing which has happened, and as you both fall in love with the little being inside of you, you and your husband have the chance to fall in love again with each other.

Take care of yourself and your little family

Love
Siobhan

MAAN I NEED HELP 2 I MEAN ME AND MY GURL FOUND OUT WERE EXPECTING A KID THIS YEAR BUT BOTH OF OUR PARENTS WANT US NOT 2 HAVE THEY WANT US 2 ABORT IT........BUT ME AND MY GIRL DONT WONT 1 BUT HERE MOM SIAD "SHE WONT GO 2 SCHOOL OR PLAY SOCCER" CUZ WE R BOTH VERY GOOD AT SOCCER AND WE BOTH HAVE A FUTURE BUT WE CAN STILL REACH IT BUT MY PARENTS DONT TAKE WE CAN........EVEN HER PARENTS DONT HAVE FAITH IN HER.......BUT ALL I KNOW I'AM HER BOYFREIND AND I WONT LET THAT HAPPEN PLUS SHE DONT WANT 1 NETHIER DO I.......... I'AM WILLING 2 DO WATEVA I CAN 2 SUPPORT BOTH OF THEM WAT SHOULD WE DO HELP ME PLZ BEFORE ITS 2 LATE......

hi i'm 29 & am in the same boat as you. i am devestated as i am not a tart at all!!! basically i slept with X on the 13th dec & then Y on the 28/29th dec & 6th jan....i found out that i am pregnant on 30th jan! my dating scan is the 14th feb....i am so anxious as i dont know if the scan will be accurate in dating my pregnancy. i dont want an abortion but i also dont want a pregnancy when i am uncertain of the father???? i feel so helpless. if my scan date says im 12 weeks it'll b Xs but if the scan dates at 10 or less it'll b Ys....do you think it's reliable enough??? please respond you're the only one who knows what im goin through x

When we were trying to get pregnant (and it took a while!) I went through every conception book I could find, and they all said you can't conceive until a week or so after your period's finished. If two scans have confirmed the date you seem fine. Don't have an abortion on the just-in-case. If you really don't want that you'd never get over it.

I think you need to discuss it with your husband. You were both in the same boat, and now you are back together - this is a joint situation.

Good Luck.

Hi
What a dilemma!
Obviously the only way to find out for sure is a dna test but i would think that the baby is much more likely to be your husbands.
If the first day of your last period was Nov 24th and you slept with someone on the 30th then this is only 7 days after your period started, ( a couple days after it stopped, no doubt?! ) so its very unlikely you would have been ovulating.
On an average 28 cycle ovulation would have been expected around the 7th/8th Dec and If you have 32-34 days between periods then its more likely you would have ovulated around the 12th/13th of December.
Hope this helps?!x

I came across some very interesting information regarding ovulation. If you follow the like, researchers have found that many women have been found to ovulate sporadically. Some on day 19 of a regular 28 day cycle.

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/whenp-regoccur.htm


And as the one who mentioned if an abortion is not what you want, you will forever regret it. I did, and am.