I come on to this website hoping mayb id find some mums who may have a lil piece of advice or useful tips to make my lone pregnancy a lil easier and all i seem to come across is 11 to 14 year olds discussing pregnancy and abortions!!!!!!!!!!!! what as this world come too?

I am only 21 i class myself as a young mum and even tho i was happy to be pregnant was a lil disapointed to think i am missing out on the best years of my life! I got a amazing job, good salary and i did have a fantastic fella... i had my life planned out and still got loads more to see and do, and then i read bout 11 to 14 yr olds with no ambition or drive to suceed!! im so disapointed in our contry this is just ignorence.

If this website is truely attracting young girls (children) that needs PROFESSIONAL advice on abortion and pregnancy its about time SOFEMININE.CO.UK did something about it!!!!

Im sorry to say this but wish you all good luck cause you going to need it

p.s i blame the parents!!!!

Im totally agree with you , about the kiddies on this site ! I have only just joined up today, expecting decent, adult natter, and maybes an occasional moan ( lol ) about our pregnancies.

What do I find tho ! A whole host of youth club candidates, whining on !

Do you not think that maybe they have gotten themselves into a really difficult situation and have no one to turn to for advice?? So they are using the internet to try their best to work around this hard time for them?? I'm 25 and I am more than help them out with any advice I think could help them. No one is perfect and I'm sure none of them wanted to get pregnant at such a young age but is that to say they will never have ambition or never succeed if they have children at this young age? Very judgemental I say!!!!

Thank you ''Sancta1'' I totally agree! I'm a teenager and pregnant, however I dont blame my parents at all! My parents always brought me up believing in 'no sex before marrige' -however like any normal human being, I made a mistake! Just because I'm having a baby doesnt mean I dont have ambition. I'm just having a baby first -then a career. Doesnt make me any less of a person. And yes I'm not denying its going to be difficult! People should stop being so judgemental when they themselves have no idea what it's like being in our situation.
Thanks agen ''Sancta1'' xxx

I think that u are so neive some people have 2 go through a lot in there life and have no-one to talk to. i am 18 and pregnant have no idea what im gonna do the father doesnt want it n everyone says i should have it aborted but i dont want to think about my lil baby everyday for the rest of my life some people need a lil guidance from people who have gone through it and can explain a lot more so you can keep you spitfull message!

P.S its not my parents fault