OK well hello there... Ill try to keep this short as possible.
I am 21 years old and i have always wanted a baby since i was quite young. I have been having sex since the age of 14 and i have had quite a few sexual parteniers and to be honest most i havnt wore protection with but i have never got pregnant. I couldnt go on the pill either as i suffer with depression. I had PID when i was 16 and that was due to having claymedia and it was left untreated. That was because my bf at the time had cheated on me with several girls and i didnt know. Bare in mind back then hes the only lad i done anything with. I have had claymedia 5 times since then and ive always seemed to of had problems down there. Ok that was my fault but i got it treated every time. I had a lapraoscopy back in 2002 and everything was fine, but since then i was told i may find it hard to conceive in future, but i had another one feb this year and everything was PERFECT and they said i shouldnt have problems in having a baby. Guess what 3 months on i fell pregnant for the 1st time... I was so adment i could never have children that when i fell pregnant i still didnt belive it... Ive never cried so much in my life but i was also quite happy.
When i fell pregnant i was with my bf but with split a week after and i found out when we wasnt together... bare in mind he is an nasty arsehole (sorry about the wording) and i didnt want a baby with him for a number of reasons, but we spoke about it all so much and we decided to keep it. I told my mom and she cried but was there for me and when my step dad found out he went mad. Basicaly i was told if i wanted to keep it i would have to move out... I am very mature but i love being round my mother and i was right in the middle of my education and i wanted a life before bringing a baby up. I felt i would be being selfish if i bought a baby into the world because of its father, what i wanted in my life and id have nowhere to live etc. I did feel pressured into my choice but i am happy with my choice. I would want a baby in a stable relationship, when i am ready and when i can give the baby everything it wants and needs without struggle...
This was the worst thing i have ever had to do in my life and it has made me grow up so much and i have realized a hell of alot. I did feel gulity at 1st but now i dont, i feel it was the right choic. I have kind of blocked it out so it dont bother me, well it was 3 weeks saturday since the abortion and i had to retest and it came back stil postive, so im going to do another one end of the week to see if any change.
When i was 5 weeks i had mega strong syptoms that got worse as time past and i was told i had a very strong good pregnacy with great hormones to keep it alive (which i found really pleasing) I hated how ill and sick it made me and to be honest i wanted the nightmare to end now it has i have some questions.......

I had sex a week and half after the abortion, was that a bad thing? Im on the pill now and me and my bf wear condoms too...

Could having an abortion affect my sexual feelings and affect me orgasuming?
It feels quite numb and i dont enjoy sex anymore and to be honest i cant orgasum at all and even when i do it myself it takes a while. Bir longer than before. The lad im with now is an ex i have always loved and to be honest we have always had a good relationship just i used to get paranoid but i am now over this... not going into all that. My ex who got me pregnant, sex was amazing with him, so im wondering is that why my bf cant make me anymore or is it to do with the abortion.

How do i know if something is wrong down there?
I am feeling bit of pain today, uncomfortable and tendor and i ant stopped bleeding since, but the nurse did say my pill could make me bleed all over the shop with spotting etc then eventually it should stop. Im on the progestrone pill only.

Im just bit concerned something is wrong... i am really happy now and i dont want to keep being reminded of this terrible thing...

HUGS TO YOU ALL

please reply ASAP thanks for reading and sorry its so long....

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Will someone please reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am astounded in you nic2110

think enjoying sex is the last thing that should be worrying you

Hi

Bleeding could be the pill, sometimes this happens when you start on it or change to a different one. Condoms sometimes do take away some of the feeling and sensation when having sex but at least using condoms and the pill you are protecting yourself and will not get pregnant again.

If the bleeding continues perhaps go and see your GP they may need to put you on a different pill.