hi im 6 weeks pregnant and im turning 16 at the end of the year i dont know what to do do i keep it or not i mean i really want to cause my sisters is also pregnant and we have calculated my due date and my due date if 5 weeks after hers so should i keep it and let the 2 babies grow up togather or do i get rid of it im so confused every1 is telling me to get rid of it ecept my sis and my fiance help

HEY U! ITS RELLY UP TO YOU, BUT WANTING TO KEEP THE BABY SO HE CAN GROW UP WITH YA SIS BABY.. DONT SOUND RIGHT, THERE ARE OTHER THINGS MORE IMPORTANT LIKE CAN U AFFORD IT? WHAT DOES UR PARTNET THINK? ARE U WILLING TO DEDICATE URSELF TO UR BABY? ALL THIS THINGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT! HOPE U MAKE THE RIGHT DESICION X X X X X LILIANA

Hi eve,

Keep you little baby, if you are now 6 weeks pregnant your little baby already has a heart beat. Go for a scan and see it swimming around safely in your womb, it is a wonderous thing. Be strong under all the pressure you are receiving, and fight for the life of this little helpless child.

It wont be easy, but you have the support of the father and your sister and if you cannot cope with a baby when it arrives then please consider adoption and give a childless couple this huge gift of life.

Dont consider the seemingly easy option of abortion; you will be riddled with regret for the rest of your life and always wonder what if....

You are young and you can appreciate life
Be strong
Be strong

Its not entirely related but here it goes. The one thing I learned about getting married when I was 19 was I knew nothing. I was a child still and our marriage took 7 years for this to surface and dissolve. I'm in no way saying to not have your baby. Just that I realize now that there were at least 7-10 more years of child/young adult experiences that I should have been doing before I was ready to do completely adult things. Baby or not, you will be far different a person at 20. Further still at 25. If your goal is to give these years of your young life to care for another, then have your baby and love him/her with every ounce you have within you. Let that be your reason rather than the fact of what your siblings chose for their path. But if you think for a second that you want something different, even if you don't know what it may be yet, consider the alternative.

Always remember that you can be ANYthing. You are as great as your determination. As a star, a doctor, a pilot, an author, a painter or as a mother. Combining these is possible, but way easier if you take these young years and apply that energy to what matters to you the most.

I'm 29 now and my 32 year old girlfriend is also pregnant. I'm faced with the same decision. She and I are deciding wether our goal is to bear this child and sacrifice everything necessary to care for it OR maintain our current goals and plans which do not accommodate a new life in our family.

Good luck.