Just thought i would leave a message on here as im feeling really down at the moment and alone. Found out 2 weeks today that im pregnant think im about 6/7 weeks gone. Me and my boyfriend decided that it was the right thing to have an abortion. I personally would love to keep it and i think we would get through it, yes of course we would struggle when its first born as its a big change but doesnt every1 struggle to begin with?
At the moment my boyfriend doesnt mention it at all,its like im not pregnant which is hard because right now i could do with comforting.
The other night i was awake for nearly an hour with pains,but have read about it and it says its normal but at that time i could of done with my boyfriend all he did was roll over and rub my tummy like it was just a normal tummy pain. I look at my tummy every day and cant believe whats in there.
Im ringing a brook clinic who can refer me to some where to have an abortion next week i think. I keep putting it off and i know thats not a good thing to do but im so scared. I wish my boyfriend would sit down and talk to me about it but it seems like when we have done that, that all we both do is cry and it makes us both feel so down.

Any advice, or help would be great as i am feeling very down!
Thanks,
Jess
xxx

For some free advice on all your options from trained impartial counsellors, Call Care Confidential on 0800 028 2228 or go to http://www.careconfidential.com/WhatAboutAbortion.-aspx

(dont worry, no Bible bashing here) You feel like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. Maybe call this number with your boyfriend, or go to a pregnancy crisis center together as it sounds like he really cares about you and will stick by you through this.

I think an outside impartial trained person might be the best to help you sort through your situation and come to a decision. Please dont rush into anything you might regret.

Take care of yourself and your man - sounds like he is as scared as you are!.

Wishing you all the best
Siobhan

All that i can suggest is that you both keep trying to talk about it. Tell him how you are feeling about needing comforting and the thoughts you are having about managing as you never know, he might be thinking the same.

When you go for your first appointment at whichever clinic you go to you will be offerd some counciling, which is ment to make sure you are 100% ok with the decision you make.
If im honest with you some of the things you are saying are exactly the same things as i said to myself and i, in the end decided that i couldnt go through with it. (im 7-8 weeks).

Just remeber that you have to be 100% on your decision and it ultimetly is your decision as it it your body.

I hope this helps a little, keep us up to date with how you get on!

((hugs))
kirst xxx

All that i can suggest is that you both keep trying to talk about it. Tell him how you are feeling about needing comforting and the thoughts you are having about managing as you never know, he might be thinking the same.

When you go for your first appointment at whichever clinic you go to you will be offerd some counciling, which is ment to make sure you are 100% ok with the decision you make.
If im honest with you some of the things you are saying are exactly the same things as i said to myself and i, in the end decided that i couldnt go through with it. (im 7-8 weeks).

Just remeber that you have to be 100% on your decision and it ultimetly is your decision as it it your body.

I hope this helps a little, keep us up to date with how you get on!

((hugs))
kirst xxx