im 16. and i had an abortion 3 weeks ago. recently its just come back into my head. iv tried to ignore it after i had the abortion but i always seem to think about it. i feel so guilty for killing my baby. i know i couldnt of had a baby but i just feel terrible. im on the verge of depression. someone please help x

Hey this is really hard for you i had an abortion last year june the 5th 06 and im finding it hard to cope i would off had it on new years eve and this year im finding it hard to forgive myself all i keep thinking is my baby would of been a year old i keep crying loads thinking i would have a baby now the only person that knows is my bf and my mate knew and told everyone and now they keep saying there gonna tell my family!! my family dnt belive in abortions so im stuck..... if anyone ever needs a chat im here cuz i cld sure do with a shoulder to cry on..... xxxxxx

i had an abortion back in Feb i was 16 and i was so low all the time and then i started gettin bak 2 myself 4 my bf helped me alot and im now pregnant again, we think its a sign that we hav 2 hav a baby but i dunno getin preg twice in 1 year especially wen iv been on the pill is a bit hard 2 understand...i havnt 4got about my last baby and never will but i look at it this way, its now in a place were people can look after it the way i couldnt of and i dont know if i'll be able 2 look after this 1 as its only been a few months but u will soon start 2 pick up if u get out and enjoy urself...i only ever told 1 person about my abortion and if i hadda told the whole world it wouldnt of made a difference it wouldv made me worse knowin what way ppl would look at me...ul b fine and im here if u needa chat xXx

I had an abortion at 17 coz my twin sis was pregnant aswell and my parents kicked her out n didnt speak to her and i couldnt do that to them.

so i done the best thing? WRONG. im now 28weeks pregnant and nearly 20 and my parents have my twin and her kids over all the time buying them things etc and it breaks my heart . im REALLY REALLY suffering . as i am now pregnant i know everything about my baby and i know how developed it was before i killed it. i cnt sleep frm crying and feeling like ... im still with the same bloke ands its awful we really regret it.

i spose time might help. but dont worry you are not alone. the best thing you can do now is advise other people not to make the same mistake you did and to never do it again. whats done is done but it doesnt hurt any less.

Hope you feel better xx

i really feel for you. how many weeks where you? i was 9 weeks. talk to your boyfriend, it will do you good to get it off your chest. im suffering in silence aswell and its not a good thing. xx

hi, im 18 and i have also 3 weeks ago just had an abortion, its such a big decision. i have cryed and cryed about it, it natural though, as you are the only one who can make that decision, and its all on your shoulders. i regret it so so much, but its done now and theres nothing i can do, except learn from my mistake. i would never do it again as the guilt is too much to handle. But please dont beat yourself up over as there is nothing you can do now. xxx

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I regret this more than anything, iv had to get a counseller because i cant take it anymore. x x