missed period 2 weeks ago, larger stomach and breasts,feeling moody,emotional etc,visiting toilet more often but why negative?!?! please please help x

i've been trying for a baby for 6 years, finally got pregnant 9 months ago,i was over the moon then one night at 6wks got excruciating pain rushed to hospital had to have an op which they removed my right fallopian tube, they didn't check my left f tube to make sure thats clear because i had complications so they had to hurry,and once you've had an ectopic you have more chance of having another not to mention its harder to conceive,then i asked the surgeon to flush my left tube out but as i had complications they can't. then ended up with an infection in my belly button where they made an insision anyway you have to wait 3 mths before trying again to let your body get back to normal. after 6wks i found out i was pregnant again because i was rushed to hospital with pains when they did a blood test they said you WERE pregnant again and have misscarried. i blame the infection and strong antibiotics i had to take anywy i was 2 weeks late with my last period but turned out negative then when i finally came on it was so heavy i had to have tablets to slow it down and stop me hemoraging. now this period i am 15 days late and not pregnant cos tests were neg. doc says its due to stress so decided not to think about it anymore and see what happens cos it's taken up my life for the past 6 years .
not had a good 2008 so i was hopeing 2009 would be better but dec 27th i slipped in my kitchenand dislocated my knee torn my ligaments and have a big frame strapped to my leg can't move or anything its a nightmare been on couch for 11 days now stuck on couch in house so bored. and pain is getting no better apparently it can take up to 3 months to heal or an operation is needed . plus i'm self employed so not earning havingto rely on hubby. doc gave me strong pain killers which have made me pass blood so now i need to stop taking any pain kilers and see if the bleeding stops, so as you can imagine its getting worse i keep thinking i must be cursed or something when is my luck going to change.

missed period -2 weeks, negative result on clear blue, I visited the doc today, had an internal scan done, nothing's showing the doc said i could not be preg, but i still feel preg , go to the toilet more often wake up in the middle of the night, and have a sore belly. can i still have hope

My period is 2 weeks late and I have been showing all the signs of pregnancy and then some...mood swings, emotional, swollen and sore breasts, enlarged nipples, bloating and soreness in my stomach, increased headaches, fatigue, achne breakout (which i've never had before), nausea & vomitting, & frequent urination. Yesterday I also noticed a small amount of clear liquid coming from my nipples. If I am pregnant, conception occurred Aug 28, which would make me almost 4 wks...I would have thought that would be long enough for an at home test to show up positive. Both my husband & I were surprised when the test quickly showed negative.
I spent most the evening crying now I'm trying to figure out what in the world is going on. I was amazed to see all the woman who are having the same issue. I don't know if I should wait a while and test again or if I should go ahead and make an appointment with the Dr???

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!!!!

hi i haven't had period since 2nd sept i 15 days l8 done 2 tests both negative goin 2 my gp monday i ave all the signs of bein pregnant

hi there, i am 2 weeks late with my period and am trying for a baby i hve done 3 hpt and all negative. am very confused-have got sore breasts, weeing loads, keep thinking im coming on and nothing!! the wait is awful.
hve got doc appt tomorrow afternoon!!

any advice in the meantime?

Hi Chris,
I was just wondering how the doctor appointment went?
I am over 3 weeks late with my period now, and all 3 hpt have been negative. It's soul destroying waiting for the result to show up each time isn ...

I hope you got the advice and answers you wanted!

im 22 and im 10 weeks late and ive taken two clear blue digital tests and both negative!!!! i feel sick every morning and im bloated and i feel alot of pain in my belly it doesnt hurt alot but im so confused what do i do?

Ok i am very new at this online thing but hey whatever my doc tells me i need to start talking to other people. i am in the army i am only 22 and i have no children as of yet but i have been trying for the last year and a half i have been countless amonuts of hormone pills and have been seeing many different doc but yet they cant answer my question on what is going on with my period and am i prego? i have had two surgrey in the past year or so and they said after both od them that i am still able to have kids after my last surgrey they said that i am able to have kids but then we came to the dork in the road i wasnt getting my pd it was a whole month before i got it again but then when i did get it is waws due to the hormones that they put me on cause i was gaining alot of weight due to the fact that i was getting my period that was on the 10 of march it is now jul the 7 and i have yet to get my period again but this time i haave been having all the symtoms as if i were prego but all the test are coming back neg one after the other my mom and hubbby both feel that i am but it is just not showiong yet on the test. let alone my mom calls me and tells me about to the dreams of the fish and things like that whicch i think is kinda of crazy but trun out to be ture. but right i am at the point where they want me to see a doc for the mental part of the stress that they are putting me thru. i have been doing alot of reading of females that are going to many different issue but they all have the same result but any way what i am trying to figure out is
*CAN I REALLY BE PREGO AND THEY JUST CANT TELL BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY HAVE DONE TO ME AS FAR A SURGREYS AND IF SO HOW FAR ALONG DOES SOMEONE HAVE TO BE BEFORE THEY CAN GET A POS TEST?* i know i wrote alot but it is just that i am on my last straw i just feel like giving everything up caue i feel sick all the time and there is never and right answer or str8 forward answer that they can tell one but can anyone HELP ME PLEASE I AM GOING CRAZY WITH FEELING LIKE CRAP!!!!

YOU SOUND VERY PEED OFF ABOUT THIS, ALL I CAN SAY IS THE MORE YOU STRESS ABOUT GETTING A BABY THE MORE YOU WONT GET ONE, AS STRES COUSES ALOT OF THINGS.... IT CAN COUSE YOU TO MISS YOUR PERIOD (MAYBE THIS IS THE COUSE TO YOUR MISSED PERIODS) OR IT CAN COUSE YOU TO NOT OVULATE (NO EGG) FEELING CRAP & SICK MAYBE ANOTHER SIGN OF STRESS & HEAD ACHES......

& SURGERY....... YOUR STRESSING ABOUT THAT ASWELL, SOO ALL THE THINGS YOU ARE DOING ISNT HELPING PLUS....

YOUR IN THE ARMY

THAT IS DEFO NOT GOING TO HELP!! THAT MAYBE A STRESSFULL JOB DEPENDING ON WHAT YOU ARE DOING,

& HOW MUCH TIME HAVE YOU GOT TO SERVE LEFT??

AS IN THE ARMY ITS NOT SO EASY TO GET OUT & WILL BE AWAY FROM YOUR BABY FOR A WHILE IF YOU ARE PREGNANT.


I HOPE THIS HELPS IN ANY WAY HONEY,

MY FRIEND WAS IN THE ARMY FOR 10 YEARS SHE STILL DOESNT WANT KIDS UNTILL HER BF COMES OUT THE ARMY AS SHE WANTS HIM THERE EVERY STEP OF THE WAY



LOVES YA XXXXXX

hi, i have missed my period its been 6 weeks now since i've had a period, i took a pregnancy test but unfortunaly it came back negative!!!
i was realy upset coz me and my partner would like to start a family.

the thing is my breasts are realy tender,i have been feeling realy sick but havent actually been sick,and my belly looks slightly bigger.
but as the test is negative (like always) how long is it until i could maybe get a positive result? (if i was pregnant)

unfortunately every women (and every pregnancy) is different so there's no real way of telling how long before it shows up on a pregnancy test assuming you are. The tests look for a hormone called HCG and the levels can rise quite slowly so all you can do really is keep testing every few days or go and see the doc. They can do a blood test which is more sensitive than a urine test but they might want to leave it a bit longer before they go that far, cost cutting I guess! The docs urine tests are no more sensitive than the home tests, which ones are you using? I got some super-sensitive ones from babymad.com (look under ultra 10miu tests on site) which were dead cheap and showed positive with me 4 days before my period was due so that might be worth a go. Dunno what else to suggest really, sorry hun but let me know what happens and good luck!

Love,
Clare 19+1 xxx

I'm sat here now with a rum and coke as i have just had the exact same issue. i'm 6 days late and have been having all the signs of pregancie,missed period, sore breasts, bloated feeling and nausea. The test however, shows negative. i'm quite upset as i was so sure. Me and my husband have been trying for almost 2 yrs now with no luck. The thing tha i'm worried about is that i have had an abortion in the passed allbeit 6 yrs ago, so i know i've done it before why not now when i'm happily married..
Please help?

hello, my period was due to start on the 10th june and there is still no sign of it starting. This has never happened to me before and i have been as regular as clockwork since i was 9 years old. Im am 18 in 2 weeks time so im panicing, i've taken 4 tests, one of them did'nt work and the rest were negative. I went to the docs on friday and this morning i handed in a pee test. What should i be thinking now?? help!

Hi, I had my last period on 1st may and have an irregular cycle (between 27 and 33 days) so am now anything from 9-14 days late. I have done 3 tests ( 2 clearblue and 1 at the doctors) all were negative. Have some symptoms such as swollen breasts, twinges in stomach like I am about to get my period. Returned to the Dr today and am now feeling a bit disheartened as although I think it is doubtful I am pregnant, feel a bit in limbo now waiting to see if I get a period next time. I have never ever missed a period before and dont feel particularly stressed or at the desperation stage, just frustrated with the waiting.

The Dr said leave it another week and do another test. She said there is only a very slim chance I may be pregnant.

Reading other comments on here make me think that in the back of my mind there is still a chance, but it is the not knowing.

i am in pretty much the same situation, but im only 17
i really want a child now the thought of it has got into my mind, i have taken 2 tests both negative, but havn't been to the doctors yet, my partner also wants a baby.
its such a horrable situation and i know it feels nice to be able to talk to someone in the same situation as your self...
let me know how it goes and if you would like to talk message me
lots of love and well wish's
willow
xxx

my last period was the 22nd of april, i have sore breasts, feeling tried, all the home preg test i have done came out negative, i dont know what is going on, can anyone help me please

like most of the replys ive missed my period and am gettin symptoms like cramps in my stomach nausea always tired and worn out and also feel faint at times im gettin a discharge which i sometimes think is my period but its not i have taken 2 home pregnancy tests and both negative i am trying to concive and its hard waiting around for results

I have four children and except for my first pregnancy, I had several negative shop bought pregnancy tests for the other 3 pregnancies. I had four negative tests for my last pregnancy and two or three for the others, that was even using Clearblue tests, which are supposed to be good. I ended up having a blood test and scan at the hospital which confirmed my 4th pregnancy. I would have been at least 10 weeks before any of the hCG showed up. Despite what they say on the packet, shop bought tests are not always accurate and although they claim 99.9% accuracy, a lot of women would dispute this! Other problems like ectopic and pregnancies outside of the womb can also give false negatives, but you will usually experience severe pain if this was happening. It all depends on the hCG level and some people just don't show much until later after a first missed period.

It is also possible that you are just skipping a period as many things can effect if you come on or not, like recent illness, stress, change in diet or to much exersize, many things can effect your hormones and make you skip a period... if you skip more than two or three and you still get a negative result, then definately see your GP as soon as possible.

I am always as regular as clockwork, I have a 31 day cycle and I have never missed a period before. I was supposed to get mine on the 1st of May but I am now 5 days late, I have taken two tests both of which were negative, I have all the symptoms of my period, bloating, cramping, headache, moodiness but just no period. Please let me know what the outcome was for you. The waiting is just killing me, I have an appointment with my doctor today at 1 to take a blood test.

As yourself im usualy like clockwork with my periods but currently im two weeks late. Ive had symptoms of nausea, frequent urination, bloating and moodiness, but like yourself no period. Another symptom I have had is a constant stretching pain in the area of my fallopian tube to the right hand side it is not agonising but just sems to be there its been there around three weeks now. I have done two clearblue pregnancy tests both of which are negative. I have been off the pill for two years and would love to be able to get pregnant. I am currentlty been having blood tests to check my fertility, been 25 i am in my prime. I have managed to get a doctors appointment but not until another week if im not pregnant i just want another period at least then i can stop thinking about other problems such as stopping my periods i know its a bit far fetched but thats how i am feeliing lately. Well i hope all is now sorted for you sorry to moan take care