I'm 18 and I know that I really wanted a baby sooo bad when I was your age. I felt like I was totally ready for whatever this child could throw at me. I wanted to be pregnant and I wanted to have sex. I did not. It's completly up to you if you want to have sex, that's your choice, but use contraception. I know what I did for fixing my baby desire was that I got involved in babysitting this certain family every week. I basically just babysat this one child every week for a couple of years. I got to watch this kid grow up (at least from 2-4) and I didn't have to stay up all night and help him if he got sick, I didn't have to deal with him when he was really cranky. I just got to have fun with him and have all the perks of being a parent. Plus I got paid.
Anyways, it's your choice. If you want to have sex thats up to you (it doesn't hurt that much if you're really wet), but don't have a child. If you want a baby and take care of it, see if you can take care of somebody elses child. I'm sure they'd want to have some time off!

-- Fresca

hey girls I need your help now. My boyfriend is trying to get me into bed but I can't do it. I am afraid that having sex the first time might hurt. i really want to lose my
virginity to him. He is 15 years old. I'm only 14. but then i want to be pregnant. I just wanna know how it feels having sex the first time.......................... ...

dont do it until ure 16 cos ul ruin it and please dont do what he says wait until ure ready and teh key si to be relaxed. i did it at 13 and regret it so much!!!!

well the first time having sex(if you didnt already) it hurts prettybad and you bleed...but the next times start to feel real good...if you want to keep your virginity thats a good idea cause you are young....and my advice is to do it wen your ready...not wen hes ready..and to wait on having kids...my sisters have kids and not that there bad they hold up everything esspecialy wen your that young..you should finish school first and if you want to go to college and have kids you cant cause your gonna have to get a job to support your kid...and instead of buying clothes and those cute shoes you've wanted you gotta buy diapers and formula...its sux..so i hope that you wait on having kids...

HONEY YOU REALLY DONT WANNA DO THIS THINK..... YOUR YOUNG AND OFCOURSE BOYS WANT TO DO IT ALL THE TIME TRUST ME IM ONE WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE'LL STICK AROUND AFTER YOU LOOSE IT TO HIM PLAY HIM ALITTLE WHILE LONGER AND SEE WHAT HAPS IF YOUR SURE THEN MAKE HIS DAY

1st - you should only do it if u feel comfortable

2nd - i was your age when i lost my virginity and so was my X im now 17 and havent got any children...although this only happens if u use ur head and be carefull wif the things u do

3rd - if u think about it its worse cz then it is gna hurt just relax...have him finger u for a while wif at least 3 fingers so that the "hole" opens so its less painful

the 1st time might not be excellent but it WILL get better and better each time

hunny i understand that you really wanna lose it.
but you jus started high school...
ik it happens now girls are getting pregnant at such a young age.
im 17 and im too young to have a kid.
sex does hurt somewhat...
but you have to think losing your virginity is a big deal.
i know some people dont think it is...but it really is there is now way of getting it back.
i mean i lost mine like 4 months ago but i still sorta regret it.

hunny jus think a lot before you have sex.

--lil d

dont have it for a few years it illegal to have sex before your 16.loose your virginity to him in a few years

i really don't have much to say about you having sex because i been there....u need 2 look at all these things before you think about planning a child
1)do your parents know
2)is he really gone be there
3)think about who gon keep ypur baby
4)think about a baby coming out that tiny hole...
5)are ya'll ready for a baby and everything that comes with it
6)make sure its love not lust

I'm 18 and I know that I really wanted a baby sooo bad when I was your age. I felt like I was totally ready for whatever this child could throw at me. I wanted to be pregnant and I wanted to have sex. I did not. It's completly up to you if you want to have sex, that's your choice, but use contraception. I know what I did for fixing my baby desire was that I got involved in babysitting this certain family every week. I basically just babysat this one child every week for a couple of years. I got to watch this kid grow up (at least from 2-4) and I didn't have to stay up all night and help him if he got sick, I didn't have to deal with him when he was really cranky. I just got to have fun with him and have all the perks of being a parent. Plus I got paid.
Anyways, it's your choice. If you want to have sex thats up to you (it doesn't hurt that much if you're really wet), but don't have a child. If you want a baby and take care of it, see if you can take care of somebody elses child. I'm sure they'd want to have some time off!

-- Fresca

it didnt hurt me and i was 13 : |
ii realii regret it
ii have bin that gyal that saiiz stuff lyk:
*wha d fuk is virginty ii dont care
*we all lose it
*its onlii sex

but ii was rong on all three accounts
once yu have sex yu can neva go bak it onlii has 2 touch in side yu and thats yur hole virginity gone yu will never have it again its not like a if you lose a pen or your keys because if it was i wuld have my virginity bak again in a second!!

please if you have any doubts even a tiny little doubt DONT DO IT

but then again if yu want to then go for it it dont hurt if you are wet already and if you pleasure your self or he pleasures you be4 sex as it:
*gets you wet
*breaks you
*turns you on so much you even forget bwt it lool

hope it goes well WEN/IF its does
all my love xx

girl do not do it you do not wont to lose your virginity yet and pluse he is to old for you.do it when you get 16.

hi, it won't hurt the first time, just feel quite tight. And you probably won't bleed if you've broken the hymen which many girls have done, through running, gymnastics, riding, stretching etc.. these people should know that!!
i don't think you should get a baby, I beleive that it helps a lot if you have a relationship, a sexual one at tha first and try living with someone first, most guys don't grow up for ages yet (30's?!) and end up leaving you with the baby with no money, no nights out when you are older and no help. Plus it's not fair to those in full-time work who can't afford a flat and are payin gthe taxes going towards your cheap council house and benefits. Why do you not want to go to uni/college and/or get a job, some skills and go travelling, make friends, have relationships and settle down later? it might depend on how you are brought up and if you're surrounded by common people where life for them consists of nothing.. sorry to say!! use a condom please and go on the pill if you are unsure! Take care

"Im sorry to be sayin this but you are a really silly girl if you want a baby at 14, i mean wouldnt yourather get and job and earn a baby instaed of having a baby thateveryone else pays!! think about this one really seriously, you could b throwing your childhood away!!"
^^
You posted that you hartless cow.
I fell pregnant at 14
Ive kept my baby
And yes maybe everyone else pays for him
But at the end of the day
Thats what the money is there for
Ive done the best i could for my little boy
Through threats being made by newspapers
Saying that under 16's are too young
To be parents...
And that we get pregnant for the money...
The money from being on the doll
Isnt anywhere near enough for my little boy.
If she wanted a baby she can have one...
She is the one suffering the consiquences not you
So butt out of her life ^^
She needs to find out what its like for herself
rather than some hartless cow
Whos not been though it herself
Sticking her neb in where its not wanted
She asked how does sex feel...
Not moan at me because i want a baby!!
Get a grip and grow up
as you cant comment on something
You havent been though...

You only have to read your comment to see that 14 is too young to have a child. At 14 you should be concentrating on your education, you might then have learnt to spell heartless correctly.

Hi there, Im 19 years old and was a virgin up until i was 16 when i was raped!

Your too young to lose your virginity as your only 14! Keep it as long as you can!
Because once its gone, there's no going back, and sex isn't as good as everyone makes it out to be! And yes, it will hurt on your first time and it will make you bleed!!!

And wanting to get pregnant at 14 is a big no no too!! Your still a child yourself and you wouldn't be able to afford a baby as they cost a lot of money and time! You wouldn't be able to go out with friends, your boyfriend would probably leave you and your parents....well, they would hit the roof!!

I hope you don't think i am being nasty to you, but im telling you the truth! Don't rush into anything and don't be silly when you do decide to have sex!

Please, be patient and don't have sex all because your boyfriend wants to show off to his mates!!

Please take my advise???

If you need any help, feel free to contact me!!

Don't listen to what the trash mouths are saying to you. Some people should really get a grip of themselves and work on their people skills.
Now, to tell you the truth, when I was fourteen I wanted a baby too. I think many girls go through that fase but won't admit it. I mean, if you think about it, in the prehistoric ages girls were having babies at even younger ages. It's all about hormones. But, this is today. Socially it's not acceptable for a girl that young to be pregnant. It makes your parents look irresponsible, and it would make you look like a tramp.
Think about the reason why you want a baby. I wanted one because I was having serious emotional issues. My dad was an alcoholic at the time, my mom was a social butterfly, and my brother was going through a fase of major temper tantrums. I just wanted a baby because I needed to feel loved. My logic reasoning at the time was that a baby would make me happy because it had to depend on me to survive. And I would love it, as I felt I was not being loved. It was a very selfish reason really. And I would never go through with it, because I knew deep down that it wouldn't be right. I could not think of a logical, realistic way to support a baby on my own, couldn't and wouldn't put that kind of responsibilty on the person who would father the child. (and truthfully, at that age most guys won't stick around. if you're having their baby or not, they'll leave.)I couldn't hurt my family that way. Because even through the bad times they loved me. My dad wasn't ALWAYS drunk, and my mom wasn't ALWAYS gone, and my brother wasn't ALWAYS angry. You know. And I am very glad that I didn't make that selfish decision for myself. I would have a 5 year old son/daughter now.
I just realized, in this past month, that I'm far too young to even be in a serious, everlasting relationship. (Though I've been through some that I thought would last forever.) At 15 I had a boyfriend I thought I loved. But I mistook lust for love and ended up getting used emotionally and physically, on multiple occasions. I kept telling myself that he loved me, and I became blind to the fact that I was being abused. (Even if you're going out with someone, no means no. And it is still rape if he doesn't respect that.)But I was certain that he did it all out of "love". When I was 17 I got into my second semi-serious relationship. Again, before I even began to love the guy he was only lusting, luckily I came to realize that before anything happened, and saved myself from getting into the same trap.
I don't think love at a young age is impossible. But I think it has to grow as you do. Essentially it starts out as lust, then onward to infatuation, then ... While you're young, have fun. Don't sleep around, that's NOT what I mean by fun. It just that there's far too much life ahead of you to really strap yourself down with a child. If you want to be a good mom, wait until you're secure in a marriage,financially and emotionally. Trust me, you'll look back at the time, and count your blessings you didn't react on a mere instinct. Be strong, say no, and it will make you stronger. Believe me.

your woundering how sex is for the first time... your names dirtypussy what the ... like why have a name like that if your a virgin get a grip of yourself wee girl. if you want to really have sex with him 4 the first time lol) go for it although i personally think thats a bit stupid if your only 14 dont you think thats a bit trampish. you want to no how it feels omg you geek hi, go watch some porn or something.

If you are not ready to have sex with your boyfriend then he should accept that and not force you! Also your under age and being pregnant but then actually having the baby and being a mum for the rest of your life is a BIIIIG responsibility you really need to think about this. But if you are going to have sex make sure you use a condom as you dont want to catch any thing or become pregnant with out planning it.

Im sorry to be sayin this but you are a really silly girl if you want a baby at 14, i mean wouldnt yourather get and job and earn a baby instaed of having a baby thateveryone else pays!! think about this one really seriously, you could b throwing your childhood away!!

Girl u are only 14 and u wanna have a kid?? R U sure u would be able to handle having a kid?? Well it's your choice. MY opinion would be to just wait untill u know u r ready
and also make sure u r protected and that this gye is who u wanna spend your first time with.

didnt u put a post on another site saying you were pregnant? by your stepbrother? strange?