hi there. i have never had sex but i heard that when you have sex usually the man would have an orgasm first. but i was wondering what the woman would do afterwards? or is there any way to reach an orgasm at the same time? (i would like to know so that it is also fair to my partner whenever i have sex).

He will only orgasm first if you let him! Sex isnt a thing thats great from the begining! You learn about yourself and your partner with time! The main thing is yourself! You dont just have plain sex and expect an oragsm! People have orgasms from different ways! Dont worry about it! And if uve never had sex before dont just do it because you think you ought to. People say sex is over rated but it's not! It's a personal thing! Keep your dignity and keep it for someone special! It's just called pride!
Cath xx

hi...

men find it easier than some women to reach point orgasm. some women find it much easier to reach their climax than others.some women need to have foreplay and then sex to reach the point whilst others dont

Hi, my husand and i orgasm at the same time, or maybe a second later. its knowing each others body and signals they give when they get close. i concentrate on getting hubby nearly peaking, then i back of and work on my self, by the time im nearing fever pitch then it only take a few strokes to get him back on that plateau of fever pitch. them we both explode in mindblowing orgasms. ( i have been married 10 months and we have been together 2 years) Hope that helps.

Guys normally orgams first.
As for women, it depends on the person.
Me, personally, it is very difficult to orgasm by just intercourse. My boyfirned has incredible stamina and it took me almost an hour!
He, of course, had already orgasmed by that point, and he just took a quick break and we went at it again.
Normally, after my boyfriend orgams, we giggle a little then start making out/whispering romantic things to one another.
I'm sure orgasming at the same time is possible, it, again, just depends on the two doing it and whther or not they both orgasm quickly or take a long amount of time.
To date, we have never orgasmed at the same time.

The women should peak first, as they can carry on more easily afterwards(if it is not possible at the same time)

You just need to know ur partner, intimately.

I am one of those lucky girls who nearly orgasms everytime she has sex after about 15 minutes, but I know that everyone is different.

But almost a guarteened orgasm is to go on top. Your clitoris gets friction and so does your G-spot.

I will also say this...you will only orgasm if your in the right frame of mind. It helps me If I think of dirty talk etc.

Hope that helps

Courtney