I was raped a few months ago but caught a glimse of the man who did it before i passed out. he's in jail now. When i passed out the most gorgeous guy found me and...well we became really close. It turns out that he is funny smart and all of those other cheesy things. We have been seing each other for about 5 months now and i can tell that he wants to have sex with me and i am so ready but every time we come close he always backs out because he thinks that he's taking advantage of me...what should i do?

im sorry to hear wht happened but about the thing you got goin on atm . if ur ready tell him tht u want to cuz hes not just guna have sex with u th leave u cuz if tht was the case he would of had sex wid you ages ago , he obv cares about u cuz hes still here so just tell him tht you want to and if hes still unsure you make tht first move

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first im so sorry that happened to you...and if your ready then tell him that you are...but if your not or your unsure i think that you should really talk about it with him...and tell him how you feel about having sex cause i think thats wat he really wants to know

LOOK WHAT EVER YOU DO IS ENTIRELY UP TO YOU WHETHER YOU WANT HIM TO MAKE THE MOVE OR YOU BUT BE SURE ABOUT ONE THING BEFORE YOU DO IS WHETHER HE REALLY LOVES YOU ENOUGH OR IS HE JUST I IT FOR THE SEX AND IS GONE TOMORROW...........THE CHOICE IS YOURS!!!!!!!

5 months is not long at all and once you have sex, that's all your relationship is going to be about. If he cared about you, he would keep dating you and wait until he can make a commitment to you before having sex. Having sex before marriage usually means breakup soon after. Don't let him take advantage of you!

You're so lucky to find such a genuine guy, but a bit of reassurance is all that he needs. Maybe you should try making the firat move.

I think it's great that he respects you like that but it all depends on how old you both are, if you really know what you want then you should go for it but just don't be too pushy or forward.