Ot: starnights in the uk...what really happens???

Hiya!

That's the first time i write it (i usually right in this forum but my country version).


I'm here cause i need u English guys!


My bf is english...

Well we are not going to get married...we are together since a bit but our relationship is pretty strong so at times we fancy on our future wedding IN A LOT OF YEARS!

Anyway we got to talk about stag nights and hun (i dunno the right spelling) nights.

Well he said "what if i sit on a chair and i have a stripper and u a stripper too?"

In my country there r ppl who go to see strippers and some ... who have sex too with them (nothing more disgusting in my opinion cause u r going to get married in 1 week)...anyway here there r "bad" ppl like "good" ones who go out with friends in bars and clubs, getting drunk BUT respecting their future wife-husband.

When i told him how i think (after being pissed off too), he said "no prob. no strippers for both of us".

I trust him so im sure (or hope) he really wont have a pussy in front of his face before getting married to me, like a i wont have a ... on my nose!

Anyway he told me he said ITS NORMAL IN ENGLAND FOR EVERYBODY TO HAVE AT LEAST A STRIPPER AND MANY DO OTHER THINGS TOO.


so.......... here my question: is it true that a normal stag night means strippers and touching and some ppl also some oral sex? i mean is it true is it NORMAL???

how is a normal stag night then? what happens?


THANKS A LOT! i know its pretty long this mess ...sorryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


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Re stag nights

This so is not true!!! I think he is just trying to get away with having a stripper by telling you that it is the 'norm' over here. Im not saying that men don't do it because im sure that they do, and do a lot worse on there stag night. But if my partner wanted a stripper i wouldnt be very impressed with him. I think that if you want to do all that on your stag night then you cant have a lot of respect for your future wife-husband, that it just my opinion though im sure many would disagree with me. Have a talk to him, and let him no how strongly you disagree and tel him why. Im sure if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you then he will listen. Ive already had this chat with my partner as we are very serious and he thinks the same as me so i supose im ok on that subject! Im not a great fan of stag do's or hen nights!! Just dont be under the impression that a stripper is something that every man HAS to have because its not!

Hope that helped hun
xx Becky xx