Help .....

Hello,

Have a problem, It isnt actually directly mine ...indirectly it is as it possibly going to affect me...
its the age old story about a bloke sitting on his ass and not getting a job...
However, this bloke (my boyfriend) is 30 (albeit a young 30)
he is very well educated & has many "talents"
mostly in music & art...the problem is he seems to have no motivation....he says he does and if he is given a task he will complete it to the best of his ability etc...but he seems to think something is just going to pop up one day ...
he doesnt see that he will have to get off his backside and go and LOOK....
he has no urgency with anything and is dreadful at time keeping etc - he just seems to drift along with his head in the clouds - he has bills to pay and is recieving warnings that he needs to pay!!! he just pushes things to the back of his mind
I really want him to sort it out before i start to resent him!!!

he goes on about how he wants to look after me etc & i have to bite my tongue on occasion...as I am 6 years younger than him, rent my place, have a good full time job, work hard, pay all my bills, work for everything I have...
while he has had everything handed to him & continues to scrounge off MY taxes by claiming benifits!!!
As you can probably tell I am starting to resent him slightly already

Any advise would be very much welcomed

Thanks