Advice needed now!! please help
I'm know sure which page I should be writing this on, relationships or cosmetic surgery? So I posted it on both
I've just a boob job last Tuesday and although my boyfriend/Fiance said he didn't mind if I had one I'm starting to doubt his feelings towards this change.
His friends have told him I'll be more 'arrogant' because of the op meaning more flirty and showing off.
Which is totally not me, before I was a 10, Small 34B, very shy around new people and when we do go out I dress in shorts and a strappy top or boob tube, but I don't show anything off other than my legs because I don't like to draw attention to myself, wouldn't know what to do with it really!! ha ha
Now I haven't changed how I dress or act and he's said he'll start to show me more affection like hugs etc (And before when we went out in clubs etc, he didn't like it if I hug him to much or kepting wanting to hold his hand!)We used to argue about this before the lack of hugs etc,well I did.
Is this ringing alarm bells, should it be?
Whats even nicer is his mum made a comment to him sayin if he didn't buck his ideas up he'll lose me because NOW I can find someone else!!! As if to see I was ugly before but now I've got boobs I'll have them flocking because of that.
I do have a right to be angry right??
Any advice welcome please help.
Thanks Sophy
PS We don't have kids or a mortgage etc, so no messy business, apart from having no friends apart from his sisters due to old friends moving away and others not being bothered to keep intouch. What should I do??
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