I dont know how it is

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now. we've past the honeymoon stage obviously n have used da L word. we had an argument recently about him being with his friends all the time and instead of jus talkiin to him about it properly i was being passive aggressive(my usual self!. he offered to come pick me up the next day to go out on a date, but i just threw that back in his face sayin "no you wont. i know u'll be busy. trust me,its you. thats just the way you are." he looked so hurt when i said that and ever since that he hasnt taken me out on a date once or even tried to be alone with me. i'm afraid i might have discouraged him with that and i dont know what to say to make it better. i'm afraid to bring it up again cause i'm unsure on how to explain it to him. he's a really sensitive guy and taks things like that to heart and doesnt forget it easily. please help me with this. he's a wonderful guy and i dont want him to think that i dont trust him. i know this isnt as big of a issue as some of u may have but i'm really new to relationships and am clueless as to how to go about things,lol. any kinda of advise would be much appreciated,lol. xxx

Hi

oh you did tell him what to do didnt you?? and now you dont like it!!! ok you need to apologise-really nicely!!! not for feeling neglected -thats another issue- but for how you handled it...tell him youre so sorry and that you didnt know how to talk to him about it-and then ask him out....yes thats right you ask him to go somewhere nice and then with no pressure just talk about how much time you both want to spend together and when and where and make sure both of you also have time for friends and next time you feel like saying stuff like that....tell yourself a big no!!! you can ask about stuff like that-just say hey ive been noticing....(whatever) and i just feel....get it? keep it to to how you feel-not about accusing him of anything-good luck i hope he acccepts your apology xx