Am i over reacting?

Hi there,

I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than a month now and we have gone from dating to seeing each other frequently very fast. I am concerned about the following:
We normally leave each other on a Sunday and then meet up on Tuesday night, and he does not seem to understand that it upsets me if he doesn't call me or get in touch on Monday for instance... I feel aweful for getting angry and upset because i fear i am being a bit ridiculous but to be fair i also know that if he really cared, then he would not wait late Monday night to send me a lousy text...
I don't know if he's being like that because it's his nature to be that laid back or if it's indeed because he's 'busy' or (like i think) because he doesn't see what the big deal is!
At the end of the day, we've only been together for a short while and i feel we should be living our 'honeymoon' period at the moment, meaning: he should want to get in touch with me all by himself, because i should be important to him! Am i expecting too much from the poor lad or is he being too slack?
What do you think?
Thanks for your advice...

You're not over reacting

I def. know how you feel and no it's not ridiculous me and my fiance have been together for 7 months now but known each much longer and we are still in our honeymoon phase most of the time. So I would expect that you would want to feel that early on in a relationship because that's how it's supposed to be at first. Well we have a very strict calling schedule and even after all this time I still get upset or think he doesn't care when he doesn't call me as soon as he gets off of work. When your feelings are involved it can make you feel paranoid about little things that really aren't even that serious. However I do think that the no calling thing is just a guy thing, they can totally care about you and miss and still forget to call or want you to be the one to call, my fiance does that all the time,he won't call when I expect him to then I just call him and ask him why he didn't call and he'll say it's cause he wanted me to call him so it could be that too. And also your guy could just be worried that if he calls you too much he'll seem whipped or he may be afraid of getting too involved too fast if that's the case you should ask what he really wants out of the relationship and let him know that you would feel better if he called you on Mondays. Communication is always the key.

Maybe,maybe,maybe!!

you could drive yourself nuts like this....or you could just ring him if you want to talk to him!!! you know having a life outside of your relationship is not a bad thing....give him time to do something and then he might feel he has something to talk to you about!! he is probably busy - you need to get busy too and stop worrying so much - and also - he is a bloke....very visual critters - he is far more likely to pay you attention when he can see you!! really - if you want to - ring him - but cut him some slack too ok?

Thanks

our answer was certainly more constructive than the other one i got...
Like you said i can drive myself nuts being like this and i do! I woke-up this morning and cried uncontrolably and texted him that we should take a break! The poor man didn't know what hit him and rang straight away! I think he cares and he's just being a bloke who is compelely unused to showing emotions in a more demonstrative way! I think i'm very lucky i've met him and i can't explain why i feel fine most times but then some other times i completely alone and sad and i think i push him away as a result. I have grown increasingly insecure over the past few months and need to sort it out. Taking it out on him is not the answer and I am not happy with the way i feel at the moment...
Anyways! Thanks again for your reply and i wish you a good day!

May be !!!!

may be he is dating some other girl ....and monday is for her ...might be