Dnt understand? is it true? is it fair? how do i choose?

hello fellow readers. OMG i am having a confuzling week. I broke up with my ex ben around 3 weeks ago as u mite have heard and tried almost embarrassingly hard to get him back, texting him, ringing him, I even wrote him a letter, not a love letter, but close too, and nothing worked. so I decided enough was enough I was going to move on. . .

last weekend I went to a gig at a locl club and met this really lovely guy, he's fit. he's really funny, and cool etc and he got my number and said he'd text me, i thort he was just being friendly. . . than 3 days later he text me off his mums fone coz he didn't have ne credit (which i thort was really sweet coz it shows hes made an effort) saying we should meet up and loads of kisses. i was really chuffed. about half an hour later i got another text, it was from one of bens friends who id met before and really liked although i was going ouot with ben at the time, hes got the most gorgeous body and is very sweet and flirty and funny. we had a short conversation by text and he said he fancied me and we should meet up. . . as you can imagine I was rewally chuffed, but which guy do i choose? they're both lovely and the guy from the gig seems really sincere and ben's mate is lovely but seems quite up for it too, if you know what I mean.lol.

then to add to my confusion ben text me, kinda implying he was hurt that idmoved on so quick and that he just hadn't replied to my messages coz he hadn't got credit, now im even more confused. does ben really still like me? is he just jealous? is it fair of me to get involved with one of his mates? and how, how do I choose between these two great guys who like me?

im sorry this has been so long i just really need ur help? i don't want to hurt any1. nd part of me still really loves ben.

thanx
x x x

Men

Hiya
Why put all your eggs in one basket! why not go out with all of them and see who you like best is not like youve got to sleep with them, we are allowed male friends. Have some fun but dont get the names and numbers confused!!!

As for the old boyfriend forget him, if he cant aford credit he cant afford you!

Solution:

well i reckon u should definately not go out with bens friend... its too complicated keeping things in friendship groups and especially if you think u may still have feeling for ben u should stay well away. i think you should hold off from enything with the guy from the bar till uve spoken to ben one last time to sort out wether you two are going to give it another try or just stay friends. when that is sorted you should ring the new guy up and get dating!