Not knowing????

My boyfriend for a while now just took a trip to see family on this trip his x girlfriend was there visiting her family any ways i felt funny about the whole thing so i get this these pics of them he is kissing her on her for head and she was making faces and there was another of them with his arms around her
this isn't the first time pics of them game up couple of months ago there were more taking some what the same way he just tells me there are friends and thats it but i dont understand if he knows how much it makes me mad why would he still take them . he says that i over react that he loves me and is with me . but why would you take pics with and x i dont know what to do i feel that some thing has happen with them and im really confused i feel myself pulling away from him i feel when he is around certain friends they try to push them together . really confused on if i should just leave or work things out

Stand by your man

Hi, hmm tricky one, so is he taking these pics and showing you? or are you finding them? Were they in a silly pose with lots of others and is he doing the same with other girls and guys in a big group (like in friends or something)if thATS THE CASE YOU MAY BE OVERREACTING.
Is there no way you can go on these trips to see family with him? It would make me nervous and he has to be made to realise how unhappy this is making you. do you have an ex? Could you try to turn it around and ask how he would feel if you got physically close with him? Taking pics of you and him in a cuddle or poses? Also how come they both visit their families at the same time? Even if you don't meet his family (may be too soon)you could go along for the trip & stay in a hotel together, or if he stays at his family's house , fine you can still go out in the evening with him and meet his frieds? Ask him how he could make these trips he goes on less stressful for you, let HIM suggest that you come along next time & take him up on it..if he doesn't.. save to cover the cost of you going ...make arrangements..and ask to come along fairly last minute..you'll know by his excuses or open arms.
good luck
h