Cool it . . .
babe, what you have to do is chill out! lol. i know its hard and it probably seems very wierd and suspicious to you that he has her stuff in his room, especially if you're a bit insecure, but to be honest darling, alot of people like to keep little reminders of past partners that they like to hang onto for the memories, especially if it was someone they liked. what yu've got to do is just try not to focus attention on those things that were hers, your boyfrind and her broke up and now he's chosen to be with you, nobody forced him to be with you, it was his choice and that means that he cares about you! you never completely forget your ex's but you can move on and that's what your boyfrined has done.
now it may be hard to accept but you can'e demand him to get rid of her things. you could ask him in a passing comment why he still has them, but you've got to trust him. he cares about you and chose you. focus on that or maybe give him something of yours for him to keep. this does not mean he's cheating on you. if you ,ove him just try and accept this or you could mention it upsets you but don't expect him to throw it all away, memories are special but it does not mean she means more to him than you do! good luck x x x
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