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my partner has some of his ex girlfriends stuff in his room!Im already insecure and paranoid anyway! I dont trust him but i love him. what do i do?

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How long have you been together

Hi Hun

I cant say that i would be too happy if my partner still had stuff of his ex's in is room, but then again it depends what stuff were taking about and i suppose it depends on how long you have been together and how long your partner as been split up from his ex. I mean is there a reason that you think he still holds a torch for his ex? Could your partner just be waiting to giv the things back to his ex?
or is he the kind of person that does like to hold on to things for memories sake? Does he know that you know about the stuff or cant you just ask him about it?

sorry ive been no help but it is a tricky one, all i no is that you should trust your intuition, because a womens intuition is usally always right!

donna

Cool it . . .

babe, what you have to do is chill out! lol. i know its hard and it probably seems very wierd and suspicious to you that he has her stuff in his room, especially if you're a bit insecure, but to be honest darling, alot of people like to keep little reminders of past partners that they like to hang onto for the memories, especially if it was someone they liked. what yu've got to do is just try not to focus attention on those things that were hers, your boyfrind and her broke up and now he's chosen to be with you, nobody forced him to be with you, it was his choice and that means that he cares about you! you never completely forget your ex's but you can move on and that's what your boyfrined has done.

now it may be hard to accept but you can'e demand him to get rid of her things. you could ask him in a passing comment why he still has them, but you've got to trust him. he cares about you and chose you. focus on that or maybe give him something of yours for him to keep. this does not mean he's cheating on you. if you ,ove him just try and accept this or you could mention it upsets you but don't expect him to throw it all away, memories are special but it does not mean she means more to him than you do!
good luck
x x x



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