He won't tell me he loves me!

I am seeing a guy who's wonderful & I know he's loyal, but he won't tell me he loves me. We've had amazing sex, and he says he could never hurt me, but it's starting to feel physical & not emotional for me which is starting to hurt. It's hard to go back once you've become sexually active with someone, and I hate to cut him off using sex as a weapon, but it's also hard to open up with someone who hasn't verbalized any commitment. Any good advice? Thanks!

My husband never says it

We are still together 21 years so far..bet that surprised you.My best friend's husband says it all the time, but he is a lazy using ,annoying, twit and she hates the way he says it to get out of the trouble he is usually in with her. Actions speak louder than words, you are obsessing on an unnecessary negative. Its a word, he could lie anyway so move on and be grateful you have an amazing man..jeesh if that isn't good enough you are setting your expectations waaaay to high.
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Ummm....

have you thought maybe he doesnt...?? im so sorry but you need to consider that -and its not that i mean he doesnt have very strong feelings for you but maybe for him to call it love is just so huge that he he feels this is just not quite that...how long have you been together? it just may be too soon for him to be so sure of his feelings or just confident in expressing them....to cut him off from sex because of this just doesnt make sense-apart from the fact that you are enjoying stuff that is bringing you closer-there were no conditions put on it when you started having sex where there???? so how can you change the rules now?he may just come from a family who dont express themselves much and that is so hard to change-if he is as wonderful as you say dont throw all that away just coz you want him to say a few words!!! give him time-but tell him that saying loving things to you makes you feel good-but dont demand that he says he loves you-how much would it mean if he felt forced??relax and enjoy