Please i need advice!

im very sad, i just discovered my husband doesnt love me, im 2 months pregnant with a child of 9 months and he keeps going out every weekend until very late at night and drinks a lot, we have an argument every saturday morning, i feel those feelings of argument and sadness are not good for my baby, i want to split up,divorce him, but at the same time im scared because i dont know if i can live on my own with 2 children and i have no family, just mum dad and a brother but they live their lifes...what can i do?

Advice!

Hello CAlma91,

I'm sorry to hear about your problem. First thing if first though. You have to put your Children at the top of your list! This is no situtation that they should be living in- being exposed to arguments, drunkness, and the stress on you shows and also will stress your unborn baby as well ( I read that if you're pregnant and exposed to stress that the unborn baby feels it and your body releases horomones that raises his/her heartbeat and sends bad horomones).

Do some research where you live and almost all countries have help for women in your situtation. It might not seem like it, but it's domestic violence. If your husband loves you, he would not put you in this situation. Think of your children. At least contact your relatives and tell them your situation and don't worry about being an "inconvenience" to them.

There are lots of programs/organizations to help you out with shelter, jobs, and food for your kids.

Hiya hunni

hiya im so sorry 2 hear that but u need 2 think ov urself n ur kids not that pig!!!!
im sorry sum men make me soo mad the way they treat us i was in a violent realtionship with my sons dad thought i cudntt leave him and be a single mum cus he made me feel weak n worthless but i got my own home and me n my son moved in and it was the best thing ever i showed him that i wasnt useless and that im soo strong n willing.
thats hurt him more than snything is that he now knws im strong headed gali was b4 i met him n got my bubbly personality bk and my son is so happy.
ive met sum1 ive kne 5yrs last yr and weve bought our house etc
so u can b on ur own and b happy with ur children and prove 2 that selfish pig that urworth more than diamonds and gold and ur kids 2 show him ur a strong person cus us women dnt realise just how strong we can be.
if u ever need 2 talk just message me hunni
keep ur chin up xxx love xxx

Dovice!

divorce him