Advice wanted from a girls point of view?

ok, i met my sisters m8 at our party and she was slighty drunk and we snogged and stuff.(although she confessed to my sis that she liked me anyway)and then we kissed at another party,btw shes 19 and im 18. the thing is, why does she not want to take this further,and when we leave the partys and she always says text/call , but when i do txt her discreetly, she doesnt respond.Plus, i always pay her compliments on how she's gorgeous with a personality to match. SO what i wanna know is, why doesnt she want to take this further, i know she likes me, but does she not like me being younger,being her m8s brother or ashamed to be seen with me?

thanks if you girls can give me an answer, im not lost and frustrated.

Mmm tricky..

Tricky situation...I think your worrying yourself and thinking of too much at the same time. I know if i was in your position i would be thinking the same..Whether its because shes your sister mate? or whether shes ashamed of being seen with you or whether its the age? My boyfriend is a year younger than me, i dont find it to be a problem because most of the time i never think about it, also you seem mature, and i honestly dont think age is so much of an issue!! I agree with the other person that she wouldnt snog you at a party if she was in any way ashamed of you so thats two points out the way..maybe she just is scared about what will happen with her friendship between her and your sister, and maybe she thinks of you as a friend aswell? i dont know how close she is to your sister..Maybe you could speak to your sister about it, because if the girl told your sister she likes you then your sister must have and idea about the situation, you dont have to tell her everything but just talk to her, see what she knows?! The girl also shouldnt tell you to txt/call her after a party and then you txt her and she doesnt txt back when it was her idea?!! maybe she should do some running around! Sounds to me like your acting more mature than she is, as your trying to see where you stand insted of sitting back and making an atmosphere whenever you see eachother! wish you luck sweetie x

Thanks alot.

i talked abt it wid my sis(she's quite open)and she is fine wid it, but didnt giv me any feedback on what her friend wanted from me?,true, what you said tho,she must like me alot cos she keeps coming back for more,lol.im only tryin to learn and understand as much about you girls as i can, but you are difficult to work out, ill giv you that one!

Hi

well ok if she didnt want to be seen with you she would hardly be snogging you in front of people at a party...so she must think youre ok....umm youre only a year younger...unless she is into really older fellas that shouldnt be an issue...i really think the only thing can be the friend issue...maybe she is worried that if it doesnt work out with you it will muck up her friendship with your sis....or maybe she is just shy about your whole fam knowing about you 2!! i was in that situation recently-and i just laughed it off-but im a lot older and probably better at not worrying so much what people think-but it was still kinda weird!!! lol ...anyway just ring her -ask her out -what have you got to lose? you know she likes you....and she just might say yes! with text people sometimes just dont reply-ring her and ask her-go on!!! good luck!!