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Want an ex back what should i do!!!

i split up with ma partner in august this year and ive had 2 other relationships since and im starting to really miss him. however there is this girl who thinks she may have a chance with him but he told her no. he said i may have a chance but hes not sure ive got to prove i want him what should i do ???

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Who does he think he is?

He has to prove to YOU for goodness sake! He is just playing mind games with you.
Sorry if this is cruel? He sounds like he is arrogant and that he can click his fingers and you will do anything he wants. Don't make a fool of yourself for this guy. Ask him why. Why do you have to prove you want him? What does that mean? You obviously have no trouble attracting boyfriends (lucky you!!) so go and find a nice one!!
Hope I haven't been too harsh!!

Glynda's right babe!

heya darling I no exactly what you mean, and it is really really hard when you start to miss your exes, recently one of my exes wanted me back and i was sooo thrilled but said i'd have to think about it, i thought i was in control of the situation but i ended up getting hurt badly again by this boy who was just messing me around. i think it sounds like this boy is trying to mess you around not giving you a staright answer and saying you have to make the effort, if you really really like him then maybe ask him out on one date or text him a flirty confab nd then see, but don't start trying to move the earth for him, he's not worth that, and if you don't get a reaction after that then forget it coz he's being a di+k and you deserve more. so yeah, if you really really like him you could try playing his gams but be aware that you may get hurt or embarass yourself, don't get yourself into a situation where you get attatched to him b4 anything is certain, thats how i got hurt.

i no exactly how you feel and it really does depend on how you feel, i could say just walk away, thats the easiest answer, then you don't risk getting hurt, but i no that i didn't and its not as easy as that if you have feelings for the person. just be careful not to get hurt darling, exes in general are bad news!

let us know how it goes, and if you manage to get it to work, please give me tips.lol
good luck however you decide to handle it
much love babe
x x x

Tell him you have to prove nothing!!!

he is playing games with you-get on with your life-as you obviously have been-and if he wants YOU badly enough he can come and tell you - and you might just want to walk on...as you tell him thanks ...but no thanks...youre not in it for the games...guess it depends how much you really feel for him-but dont put up with being treated like a plaything xx



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