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Female advice wanted please.

hey,
I'm a boy of 21. I met a girl who is lovely, she is very pretty and has a great personality but I'm not sure if she is interested and/or if I should persevere even if she doesn't like me. She was working in a shop and I noticed her, we have met up twice but very briefly each time...she didn't text me back at all and told me she was busy so I assumed she wasn't interested but then we met up and she seemed different (very sincere about being busy), she was very giggly and seemed nervous and she made me smile a lot
So basically I'm not sure if she likes me, I don't think she does or else she would talk to me, I was thinking of asking her out again closer to christmas though. Even if she doesn't like me yet maybe I should just keep trying and she might get to like me...?
any advice would be appreciated
thanks.

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Go for it

If it's one thing women like, it's a man who knows what he wants. You have to really show her that you are very interested, and if it doesn't work out atleast you can tell yourself you followed your heart and were honest to yourself. Never have any regrets, never be able to ask yourself 'what if?'

Be friends even so..

She is nice, she might split up with him, have a sister or something..why give up on someone you are drawn-to..fate will let you know.
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Obsession?

Hi, I understand that you seem pretty much head over heals for this girl?... but according to her reactions, she doesn't seem to share your feelings ... I can only advise not to insist to hard, otherwise you will just cause her to take greater distance... maybe she will show more interest if you seem a little more detached? and that may be what attracts you so much to her: we often desire what seems unaccessible...
good luck anyway,

so long )

I am stupid.

Never mind. I just found out she has a boyfriend. I feel so stupid.

Thanks

Thanks for your advice, I have been keeping my distance lately. Of course I wouldn't wish her to split up with her current boyfriend, that would be plain nasty. I can see she is happy and that is good, maybe one day something will happen

Wassup man

yea what is it wid girls? im in a similar situation, and always stuck between not sounding to needy and not sounding to distant.respect to you man,i cood probably talk abt dis mystery for ages,lol.



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