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What do i do??

I don't know what to think anymore. Right after i ended my relationship I was having second thoughts about my ex. Everyone told me to be strong and move past it but I can't seem to get his name out of my head after all this time. It's been six months. I know why our relationship ended so suddenly and it was because I never told him how I felt. Maybe if I had things would be different. He said he was in-love with me. Maybe he still is I, don't know but I really want to try again. I may not have been in-love with him but I was really happy. Even my friends noticed a change in me. They said I was acting more confident all the time and I always looked happy. Ever since I broke it off I've been okay. I haven't taken any interest in any other guys. Not a day has gone by that I don't think of him. Should I try again? I know what went wrong and how to fix it so there might be a chance that things might work out.

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Talk to him!

Hey hunni, like sazzle25 said, you will always be wondering what if? if you dont at least speak to him about how you feel. Some might say that you cant live your life wondering what if? all the time, but this could be a life changing thing.
Definately talk to him and see how you both feel.You wont know until you ask. Good luck with everything

kayleigh xxx

Go for it

Hi hun

after reading ur message i thought you should defo speak to him, i mean if you dont you are always gona b wandering WHAT IF. How long ago was it that u split up?
If he told you he loved you his feelings will not change over night hun, everyting you said in ur post was positive about how you felt so why not give it a shot if i felt like you did i wuld defo try. Even if you talk to him and it does not work out how you would have liked then at least you can think well i tried and i gave it my best shot. If you cant stop thinking about him and really care for him and he feels the same then its all GOOD hun, you will regret it if you dont try. And u not taking any interest in any other guys goes to show you really still feel a lot for him. You need to tell him how you really feel and if you get back together make sure you both talk and tell each other how u r feeling cos a lot of couples dont and they just drift apart. And like you say you know what went wrong and its fixable so its all there for you to grab with both hands hun.

Good luck, not that i think you will need it. Seems you know whats what you just need to talk to him and explain how you feel.

Letme know how it goes hun, but dont leave it to long.

sarah x x



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