It was over so quickly.. a religious thing maybe??

Hi,

I recently got together with a guy from Tunisia and he's lovely. He is a muslim and I am a christian. This is not my problem and I dont have an issue with it.

Last week we had sex for the first time but it was over so quickly and he did nothing to satisfy me really. I'm not sure whether it was down to him not having enough experience or just being selfish or a religious thing. Other than that he is loving, caring and seems very trustworthy and genuine.

What do you guys think I should do? I think I might be able to talk to him about it without dying of embarrasment but what if its a religious thing?

Any ideas?

Thanks.

Just give this some thought....

darls i always wonder why people will get naked together.....play around wih all each others intimate bits....have sex good , bad or indifferent but then find it too embarrassing to talk about!!!??? go figure....!!!just talk about it ok?? be nice, be sensitive and just ask him how he feels about the things that are important to you - and then ask him whats good for him of course....and hey it just may be that he is really excited about you!!! but there is nothing stopping you from having round 2 shortly after a quickie.....and 2nd time he will probably have a little more control...show and tell works...he just may need to know what you want - god luck and have fun xx

Hi!

Well...

If you've experienced men to take a long time with sex, then this is probably why it seemed to short.

My first sexual partner could go for hours, but my second lasted very few minutes. It can be a real let down. It seems to me it's more about him, and if he didn't satisfy you properly, maybe he is just inexperienced? He may not understand how to turn you on (as it does vary by person).

My suggestion is to go and talk to him, I'm sure he'll be able to understand.