Hi hun,
know what you mean about the little things but is that really enough? It's the big stuff that matters, is he there for you and your son when you need him? Does he make you feel supported and like you're in this together? Does he help financially? Does he make you feel loved? If he's not doing any or all of these things he needs to shape up or ship out cos you really do deserve better. I'm not a man hater at all (got fab husband, together 6 years) but think all women are amazing and can't understand why so many of us stay with such crap men! Don't get me wrong I did it myself (3 years with an absolute a**ehole) and it gets complicated when you've got kids together but you only have one life, don't waste it on someone who doesn't make you feel how you deserve to feel. The only advise I can give is to talk to him, sounds like the two of you need to work out what you both want and then try to make it happen so both of you can be happy. It'll take time and the first step is to find out if he's willing to make the effort, if he's not you're fighting a losing battle before you start. Hope it works out for you but please don't carry on selling yourself short, you deserve better.
Love, Clare xxx
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