Help!!! should i or not???

Hi Im 14 and Well I have a guy who I know likes me and All and I kinda like him but everything he says is sexual and Im all LOL but im only 14 and I don't wanna do ANYTHING I'll regret... You know.... What should I do??? Go out with him or just back away from this situation....???

Hey

while i'm young 2 but i'm older than u don't do nothing that u don't want 2....

Be careful

Hi Nikie,
First of all, 14 ( you are too young )to even think about sex ( lol )
Secondly, when a guy really likes you and he has good intentions with you, the last thing he is going
to talk to you about is sex. It is obviouse what his intentions are and I dont think you should put yourself out there.
My suggestion is walk away sweety. You dont know what he might want to do when you guys are alone. There are too many crazy things that could happen, so my question is why risk it?

Stay away from this guy and find someone else that could respect you. Sex will eventually happen, there is no need to rush.

If you do happen to have sex with him, you pretty much already know what is going to happen. He doesnt respect you, this is obvious so you know he is not going to stick around or be your boyfriend. There is a good possibility he just might use you only for the sex and nothing more. Dont let him speak to you this way, test him and find out who he really is. Tell him that you feel he is disrespecting you and you dont appreciated it AT ALL.

Men love the hunt...give him one and he might just change his attitute towards you. I hate to say this...but boys will be boys...and what they will think is: if you are accepting it from him, you pretty much accepted from every guy you meet.

My suggesstion is: Keep away...don't let anyone disrespect you !

Good luck
Celi

Hi hun,

there's no reason you shouldn't go out with him, you just need to make it really clear from the start that you're not ready for anything heavy so he knows where he stands. Lads do tend to come on a bit strong sometimes but it's often just a front, they're just as scared about new relationships and sex as us girls but they think they're not meant to show it. Don't get me wrong they're not all like that, some of them really are only interested in one thing but if you tell him from the beginning that aint on the cards it'll be obvious what kind of guy he is from whether he sticks around or not. You sound like you've got your head screwed on and you know what you're ready for and what you're not so just keep doing what you're doing and you won't go far wrong. I'm a lot older than you so am trying not to go into 'mum mode' here but believe me your body is the most precious thing you will ever own and it will make you feel like crap later on if you give it to people who don't deserve it. Stick to what you feel is right for you and never listen to people who try to persuade you otherwise, they're only out for themselves or they wouldn't be trying to talk you into stuff you're not comfortable with. Good luck and I hope he turns out to be a nice guy, you deserve nothing less.

Lotsa love,
Clare xxx