Confused ... help
Hey Everyone. Iam new here and have a kinda long story which could really do with some advise on so please help if you can, thanks.
Well I kinda started seeing this guy at the beginning of December, Will call him M. I have kind of known him for about 1 year or so before but only because he is a regular in the pub i used to work in & we used to chat, told him i was leaving & he gave me his number so we could keep in touch. So went round his for coffee one day & then just carried on seeing him. The thing is i was in a relationship at the time but things had been bad for a while and i ended up splitting up with my boyfriend at the time, not because of M but because I was unhappy & I had started to get feeling for M & realised if i could get feeling for sum1 new no point being with him anymore. M knew this all along.
Just the thing is the first 2 weeks were so great, he wud txt me all the time, kiss & cuddle me, tell me that i was lovely & told me he had strong feelings 4 me, told me he missed me etc. But then things just changed he doesnt text me anymore & I have to try make a move for a kiss/cuddle when i see him now, but he still asks me to go round most nights even after work at like 11.30pm and asks me to stay the night. just there no affection there, tried bringing it up & I know at xmas he found it hard coz of sumthing which has happened in a previous year so he hates xmas and told me to bear with him, but nothing seems to have changed much, he also told he the other day that he does have feelings for me just its hard for him 2 show me at the mo.
Iam so confused with what is going on and how he really feels about me, is it because b4 he couldnt have me completly and now he can. Tried bringing it up but he just tries to change the subject or takes it the wrong way.
i really like this guy, he makes me smile and laugh and i love being around him just dont want to hang on and end up getting hurt.
please help
Charlie x
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