Sex on first date?

I've recently...recently being 7 months ago...come out of a 3 year relationship.
I've had my eye on a guy that works at the same shopping centre as i do for about 6 months, but been to shy to talk, a few weeks ago we got talking and he asked for my number.
I don't know if im old fashioned, or what eva, but i'm really confused about the whole sex..oral..etc, and when its considered an exceptable time to do these things.
I personally wouldnt want to sleep with him for a month or 2....is that to long?
I mean i wouldnt not do anything for that long...like oral and stuff is ok, but even then i wouldnt think to do that until maybe 6 dates?
If you could, i'd really appreciate some opinions on this...guys opinions would be great too??
Thanks,
Loz

Hey..

I really wouldn't recommend sex on the first date either. It does seem that you might want more than a fling or something with this guy so I suggest you take it slow, to be honest, 2 months isnt that long, if he wants this to work just as much as you do then he will wait until you're ready and comfortable. If he's looking for sexual stuff at such a fast speed then i would just drop him, he's not worth it. Let him give you the respect you deserve, you arn't just giving out candy here :|
And remember, you have recently came out of a long relationship so don't rush.
About the oral stuff - In my opinion, I wouldn't do that either until I have sex with this guy, so it's like a package, cuz with just the oral, it's like your teasing.. badly. lol. Just wait till the right moment and you can make it special.
This is my opinion. Goodluck, Loz.


Nancie x

Wouldn't recommend sex on the first date...

I wouldn't recommend sex on the first date. Guys like a girl who is a little hard to get. Plus, if you see him when you go to work even worse because you will have to see him all the time and wonder if it doesn't work out. It might be akward for you.
If you want to be in another committed relationship, it sounds like u do, then take it slow, wait ur 2 months 2 have sex because he will only respect you more!
Oral sex, I would say whenever ur comfortable with the guy. It's ur choice in what u do. Ur parents raised you but u hav 2 find urself and do the things u want 2 do. U can't please everyone. I'm not saying sleep w a bunch of guys I'm just saying u have to experience dating other guys b4 u want 2 be in a committed relationship. So, once u know urself and do what u want, hav fun! U sound young, so enjoy your youth!! I hope I helped a little bit!! Good luck!!

Hiya

It depends on the person really. Whenever you feel ready. I had "liasons" with boys (when I was a teen) too soon sometimes & regretted it afterwards. However I had what I thought was going to be a 1 night stand & am now still with that fella 8 years on.

If I had my time over I would wait, I agree with the other post, if the fella waits it means he respects you & your wishes.

tc xx

Hey

hey hun

ive only ever slept with 1 person on a first date,i had a bit too much to drink and i hated myself for it... but my current bf i made him wait, the ones that respect and want you for you and not sex will wait. take your time and only do something when you feel ready...if he genuinly likes you he will respect that.