Not enough sex

MY BF AND I HAVENT BEEN GETTING ON TO WELL LATELY, WHEN WE DISCUSSED THIS IT SEEMS TO BE BECAUSE HE IS NOT GETTING ENOUGH SEX, ONCE A WEEK IS NOT ENOUGH ALTHOUGH HE IS ONLY HOME 1 NIGHT AWEEK, AND WHEN HE IS HOME HE CONSTANTLY GOES ON ABOUT SEX, ALWAYS TOUCHING ME, TALKING ABOUT SEX ETC. SO APPARANTELY THIS IS ALL MY FAULT BECAUSE I OBVIOUSLY SHOULD GIVE HIM SEX ANY TIME HE WANTS IT AND DRESS SEXY IN BED AND ACCORDING TO HIM I AND A PRUDE BECAUSE I SAY THE THOUGHT OF ANAL SEX AND SO ON REPULSES ME. I FEEL LIKE CALLING IT A DAY AS I FEEL HE IS TRYING TO CONTROL ME. EXP WHEN SITTING ON THE SETTEE WATCHING TV OUT OF THE BLUE HE WILL SAY ANY CHANCE OF A ... I HAVE EXPLAINED TO HIM ITS MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A SEX OBJECT BUT ALL HES SAY EVERYMAN WANTS A COOK IN THE KITCHEN WHORE IN THE BEDROOM. SHOULD I JUST GIVE UP ON THIS RELATIONSHIP

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I agree with what the others say. You should leave this relationship. He is only using you for sex, and he has no respect for you.

Hi

well what id say to that is he obviously dosent have any respect for you and i would finish it with him hun! maybe u should tell him "if you were home more than once a week then maybe you would get it more often!!" hes rude and disgusting and if you don't want to do these things then tell him to get on his bike n ... off! your worth more than that!! hope it all goes well xxxxxx

L

what a looser...him, not you...tell him to get a life and to stop bossing you around, i love sex and can't get enough of it LOL!, so once a week wouldn't be enough for me either, but in this case i think that it is his way of controlling you...he doesn't seem to respect you at all...e.g. anal sex can be wonderful, but only if both parties are willing to do it and it should never be forced on anyone
....so babe, have a chat with him and just give him an ultimatum, 'change your ways or go!'
keep us posted
best wishes
belladonna

Not nuff sex

Tell him to get a life! just read out your dilema to my other half, and he said that if he was you he would knock the relationship on the head.sex isnt the bee all and end all of everything and it seems that your bf just wants you for the sex and for in the kitchen. whats he doing when he is away how does he cope without the sex then .thats if he is or does he get it when he is away too? me my self id of slapped him one for saying what he said(cheeky ****) sex should be when your both ready not just for his takeing when he feels like it, it makes you feel cheap, and dirty if thats all he wants from you. I'd defanatley give him the boot out the door !!! I have found plenty of single males who would respect a nice female and are nice to be with as well.

get rid of him and find some one that can treat you right before he messes your head up.

underloved

Time to........

Call it a day on this "Relationship". He is not listening to what you have to say. There is more to a relationship than sex after all, and if he sees that as being the only problem, you are wasting your time with him. How can he possibly think that seeing you one night a week is enough to keep you interested! Does he bother to contact you when you are not together, does he make the effort to romance you when you are apart..if he doesn't..you are well rid of him.
As for his attitude regarding his attitude towards a woman's role in life..my goodness that went out with the Ark!!

Sex

yes give up relationship,he not kind of man for you.dump him and find a man who treat you nicely.

Boo

That guy's attitude stinks. get a man who treats you nicely!