Ah awkward!
theres this girl right, in my same flat at uni in londonover the past 6 months ive really gotten to like her. We used to be really friendly an generally take the ... a lot and have a laugh. Then a few incidents occurred involving alcohol, yea I was wasted. First I told her on msn, yea msn even though we in the same flat, anyway I told her I really liked her then about a week later apparently I was really nasty to her. In front of her friends as well mite I add. I cant figure this out because I have never thought anything bad about her at all and am sure she knows this as well. But it seems she has thought nothing of the first encounter and is pissed off about the 2nd one. I have apologised I dont know how many times but she always says its ok and that shes forgotten about it anyway.
It has gotten hard to talk to her now, I get very short answers in return and nothing in terms of questions etc to try and keep a conversation going so it ends up really awkward. Now if I dont try and talk to her the tension will just build and build, I reli like talking to her but it makes me think she really doesnt want to with the types of answers ive been getting. Dont get me wrong she answered my questions but an example of what im talking about is shown below>
me: heya [her name]
her:hiya or hello
me:u get up to much today?
her:no not really
*at this point she wudnt even return with a question or anything so if i didnt say anything else she wudnt make any sort of effort to talk..*
*ive noticed this as before she would have kept talking at this point, not much but enough to show that she actually cared etc etc *
She talks away to the other ppl in the flat like asking questions etc to keep a convo going but after the time I were unfortunately nasty to her she has said hardly anything to me. The fact that she talks to everyone else no problem just makes it worse!
Might i add that we are both quite shy, I have thought of things to say to keep a conversation going but my head just blanks for some reason when I try an speak to her(yea got a mad crush on her  ), so I jus try and make up questions there and then, surely she could try the same thing?
Its getting to the point were I just dont want to speak to her even though I do.. if that makes sense. Should I just start chatting lots and lots to her or just not say much at all and just generally avoid her to see if she comes round?
any ideas are helpful
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