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Hello,
Oh dear you do have a problem, hmmm, firstly age has nothing to do with it, who do you think out of each of them would give you every thing that you need ? like love , affection, happiness, careing ? It seems that your in a love triangle. How do you feel about te 3rd one? You say you care for the first and second that is possibly a friendship thing then? crushes fade, you see something , you like it, you want it but soon as you get to know more about them its not what you think its going to be, or turn out as you had hoped.
I had a simular problem, i was going out with one guy for nearly 2 years, lived with him etc , things started to get stale, (he was a computer techi, and enjoyed going to see his friends then to spend time with me) so seen as i wasnt getting love and affection of him i started to look else where. One evening after finishing work he was down at his one friends, he put his friend first rather then me. i was left stranded until he decided to come pick me up. where he was with his friends was about half an hour walk, not easy to get to either, no busses ran near there late at night.
One of his other mates lived only 5mins from where i was stranded, so i decided to go and see him until my boyfriend at the time could decide to come and pick me up. this became a regular thing. me and his mate became a regular thing, things started to happen between us and i felt wanted.
I'd started sleeping with him any way as time went on, my bf clocked on, we had a massive argument, until he forgave me, and we got back together.
time went on and he sort of stopped bothering with me again, he dint spend much time with me , dint do much together, so i started to look again, but this time i fell for his brother, but his friend still also liked me, and had strong feelings for me too.
It came to the point of what do i do? im not happy in the relationship that im in, the landlord wanted his property back as i couldnt afford it and i had no benefits that would help pay for the house that me and my family was in.
Landlord became aggressive and threatening.By this time my bf became an x he walked out on me, the nite after i stayed over his brothers and thought about things.
As it was a bank holiday weekend i cleared all my stuff out of the house, gave the landlord the keys back and went to live with his bro.
in the mean time tho the guy that liked me still (xbf mate) had wanted me to go on holiday with him, id already figuered out what he would be like if i got with him etc) i turned him down for his bro.
i was only sapposed to be stopping with his bro for a few months untill i got my feet back on the ground but luckily my x bf brother has become my bf , the other guys feelings was hurt, but we have remained friends as we still like each other but not in that way.
i have been with my bf now nearly a year, hard work but im happier now then what i have been in a long time.
hope my story helps with your problem.
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