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Am i being played?

Hi, me and my GF are recently broken up after a year and a half and is very hard on both of us. We still care for each other. A few months ago just after we broke up I began talking to this other girl who confessed she liked me and we texted for a while. We even met up once however; she asked me if I wanted to see her one weekend and I agreed, when the time came she was supposed to text me but never did and I texted asking her why as it was her idea. She told me in the morning she didn't have her phone available even though she was talking to me gone midnight the night before.

A week later, she told me it was better for us to remain friends as going out would prove 'too complicated' I told her I enjoyed getting to know her better and left it there.

A couple months pass with no contact and it's V-Day! My ex tells me she has broken up with her BF and would like to spend the day with me as last year we had an amazing time! We go and on the way home to the station guess who we run in to... the other girl who I was texting when broke up with my girl. We smile at each other and that's that.

Then the next day she texts me for the first time in months and asks me what I have been up to during the holidays (as if she didn't know) and I tell her, we get to talking again only not as regular as before. Week later she asks if I am back with my ex and if I would like to meet her. I tell her no and it would be fun, but the same thing happens again the weekend comes and I hear nothing. I asked her if she wants to meet now and she says that day is no good even though she told me that day the previous week. What is her game?

Thanks!

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I don't think she is necessarily playing a game. Maybe she has had a bad experience before with a bf who was with her and then went back to the ex. AFter she had seen you with the female (your ex), she was the one asking you whether you could meet again. I think she could have found easier options with other males, if she had only wanted to play.

I don't know whether I explain clearly enough what I mean. English is not my mother tongue.



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