How to take care properly of my man.

I am asian and my partner is western. We have been living together for a year, but we're in a relationship for 3 yrs. I worry that I am not taking good care of him. He is 48 yo. likes to drink socially and a heavy smoker. We both go out together after work and he is very stubborn but he wants a lot of attention. Please help me and advice me what to do so I can take care of him, without being too pushy. He takes good care of me, and I love him with all my heart. I need to do more than just watch him push himself to the edge. He is not feeling well at the moment. Please help...help me..so I can take care of the only person who matters in my life. Thank you.

Dear moody

I don't thing you need to get extra energy being caring about him, everybody has a unic way of love demonstration, if he doesn't feel beloved at all he would stay with you wouldn't he?

Take a deep breath!!

u need to calm down if ur streesing hel be picking up on it which will worry him!! most people these days drink and smoke i just hope you both exersize and eat properly if he doesnt u try and find somekind of exersize he will enjoy u can do together if he requires attention from you even if its just going on walks together that way hes exersizing and ur spending time together, have you tryed asking him y he drinks so much??? talking is the key to a healthy relationship maybe he has something on his mind??? if he does like an occasional drink maybe try to come to an agreement that he can drink at the weekends but detox through the week to clear out the kidneys, does he no the damage excessive drinking does maybe u should look it up and show him how bad it is and the effects??? hope this has helped xxx