Really need some advice

ok sorry, going to go in a ridiculously long story here so please bear with me.

for a while i've been seeing a guy who i've liked for years but we're not exactly dating - it's a 'friends with benefits' thing to be honest - but over time i fell for him and i care a lot about him. the problem is that it is only a friends with benefits situation even though we care about each other a lot.

recently we haven't been getting along so well because of this fact so i've become quite detached from him - and a few nights ago i drank a little too much and ended up kissing someone else. he doesn't know about it and i'm not sure if i should tell him. after all, he did tell me before he didn't mind me seeing other guys but i have this feeling that he's not going to be too understanding.

thing is, i felt incredibly guilty the whole thing so i didn't really try to enjoy it. but i do like the other guy even though i'm still in love with my friend.

and i'm expected to be seeing the other guy this weekend.

does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?

Your just friends

well first of all i think that its up to you to tell him..after all you guys are just friends..right...you shouldnt feel guilty about cause your not in a relationship...and maybe you should see the other guy a couple time just to make sure you know were your heart is at...and what you really want for yourself.

See the other guy

It sounds like your friend doesn't want anything more than friendship (with benefits) so I'd say go for this other guy, you don't know what you might be missing out on!

Don't let your "friend" stop you from living your life, it's not fair if he does.