Help... do i end my 3year relationship

Hi,

Ive been with my Boyfriend now for 3 years but really feel like we're fighting a loosing battle. We are so different in everything that we do but always try so hard to be right for eachother. Dont get me wrong when its good its very very good but when its bad its bloomin awful.

Yet another argument has occured this weekend because i went out and come in late and his words to me were "i dont trust you". Now i have never given him any reason to doubt and personnaly dont beleive in cheating. But i dont think i can carry on much longer. I feel as if ive always got to explain everything i do. And he really dont like my friends or anything i do. We alwats go up and down. Split up then make up..

Thing is... As much as i think we'd be better apart im gonna kind of feel guilty for tsking everything away from him i.e house, dog..relationship! Ive always been the more social one out of the 2 and just think that if we do split up, ill have support from everyone and he wont. I know there is never a good time to break up but he is so fiery and his dad is ill at the moment.... Dont know what to do.

Can anyone give me advise please!!! Sorry to have rambled

Hi

I think you should give him one last chance to make this work if you love him

sit him down and have an honest conversation
tell him how you feel about infidelity and that you would never consider cheating on him

try to find out why he is acting the way he does and tell him how it makes you feel

tell him exactly what the consequences of this behaviour if it continues

some people have different social needs and it sounds as though he is happy to just spend his time with you, may be he has been cheated on before

hope this helps

My heart goes out to you situation

you have to do whats best for your self, dont stay with someone because of guilt.if your really not happy then its for the best, i was maried 19 years in a relationship like yours , after we split i felt like i could breath again.iam in a nw relationship, and sadly thats going the same way, split and make up.this kind of relationship wont change, so think carefully about your future together.